Is it me or does a guy seem to go faster with his pelvic thrusts when u ask him to give it to u harder, instead of actually "giving it to u harder?"
2007-03-02 22:17:06 · 8 answers · asked by PIRINOLA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
next time you want your bf to give it to you harder, define the word harder to him, as in to slam it into you, n not put up the pace, n then maybe you will get what you want, sorry if it sounds crude but i dont mean it to be.
2007-03-03 05:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question you should be asking him - not us.
If things aren't going right - then you need to tell him. Gently. He may believe that he is actually thrusting harder. Or he may not be in the right position to give you what you want. The latter is always an option and a frequent culprit. He has to be able to penetrate deeply in order for you to feel it harder.
Some men believe that if they go faster - that you will feel it harder. Tell him what you want, and guide him gently. He doesn' t know - he doesn't inhabit your body. He can't feel what you feel so help him out some.
If you can't talk to your lover while your make love - your sex life is never going to go where you need it to.
2007-03-03 15:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by noncrazed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's annoying isn't it?
Because guys have a hard enough time thinking straight while they're not having sex. Asking for something during sex, is asking waaaaayyyyyy too much from a man!
Maybe next time you'll have to specify "harder and slower" or "medium paced". ; )
Good Luck
2007-03-02 22:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Canadian Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, how else can a guy do other than thrusting in and out harder on you?
2007-03-02 22:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all logic for guys to do it faster coz' it will give you a certain feeling of pleasure..come on..im a guy n wen you are doin it faster..the harder the penis gets and tats a sign in which tells you the guys had become really aroused..
so it will be a pleasure to both you n ur partner...
n thats when you will moan and groan in pain too...
sorrie...(sexual-content.)no children under 18
2007-03-02 22:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe its a hard and fast rule with him. But you know dear you shouldn't be so demanding of the poor man. You'll scare him away.
2007-03-02 22:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because harder is will be faster and more fun.. have fun..
2007-03-02 22:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could chime in a bit and help, eh?
2007-03-02 22:24:02 · answer #8 · answered by C J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋