i have a huge crush on this guy.
well.. we've met twice before.. but it wasn't anything personal.. few days ago , he asked me out... i can't help being anxious..i do have self-confidence but not at this time... what if he doesn't like me back?? what if he decide to be JUST FRIEND?? what if i am too fat to him??? im 5'2 and 115pounds... im thingking of starving few days before i meet him... i really really don't want to lose this guy.. by the way he is 6years older than me.. what should i say to him?????
we are going out tomorrow evening(9.p.m.) any advice will be greatly appreciated.
2007-03-02 21:54:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you want to possibly date someone that would like you more if you had "starved" yourself. If your going to date someone, and be happy they should like you for you! and how you are already! He wouldn't have asked you out if he wasn't remotely interested in you. Just be yourself, and if he doesn't like that side of you, he isn't worth dating. Smile, laugh and have a good time!
2007-03-02 22:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asked you out he LIKES you. So do NOT be worried. Take ONE step at a time and don't have any expectations......don't worry about "being fat"or whatever- the fact that he asked you out means he likes you and what you look like. So have confidence in yourself and take one step at a time. Don't worry. Being friends is the FIRST step - relationship is the next. There is no hurry. Good luck.
2007-03-02 22:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself,And if he dosent like you for who you are,He isnt worth geting to know,Even if he is the hotest guy ever.If you try to be someone your not than that person will fall for that person,And not for the real you,Its like falling for a different person.
2007-03-02 22:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself if he doesn't like you, who you are you don't need him. don't ever change yourself for a guy. just let him know the real you. and also you seem fine weight wise to me so don't get too skinny its not very healthy. Good luck. and remember you are just as hot to someone out there as he is to you!!! wouldnt it be just uber great to have someone like you for you. you betcha !!!
2007-03-02 22:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by siayae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear! we must be strong enough to accept alot of NOs in our life. I think he liks you too but if he desides not to continue thats just his choise. be lelax and try to be yourself then he will be like you more, it proved that people love who are in good feelings about themselves.
I wish the best for you. enjoy your date.
2007-03-02 22:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by *Grace* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him and talk to him, get to know him then build up your relationship from there
good luck
2007-03-02 22:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋