we love each other . initialy he was ready to run away with me. but now he is laging behind. but can not accept the fact. we didn't talked since a week but i really miss him a lot.
2007-03-02 21:46:24 · 9 answers · asked by anubha k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously he cares more about not upsetting the family than about marrying you. Tell him if he really loved you then he'd spend his life with you regardless of what others think. If he's never going to do it, then leave.
2007-03-02 21:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should say first keep your emotions and bindings aside and think over the whole situation calmly. You need to prepare yourself for each & every situation that arises out as this is not the end of everything just have a positive approch towards life and take it as a challege to you. Go ahead and you will find all your hurdles are already too small for you. My best wishes are with you.
2007-03-02 21:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Gazal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him,hes not worthy of u if he cant go against his family.If u go ahead and marry such a guy,his family`s opinion will always come first to him,so u guys will have trouble making decisions as a couple.I say he isnt independent enough yet,abit immatue i guess.
2007-03-02 22:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by traces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. If he's close to his family and they don't want you with him, then if you have children, they'll end up either treating you like dirt in front of your children, or treating you all badly, or they'll end up financing a custody battle for their son to get custody of your kids and take them away from you.
2007-03-02 21:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Anubha ..
I really can understand what u going through .. coz have been in a such a situation ...
listen i think i can really talk sense with you and you can chat on gmail or yahoo if its ok with you .. my gmail id is rockz309@gmail.com ...
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regards
2007-03-02 23:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by Smarts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first try to convince a lot if he wont agree u only go to her parents and tell
2007-03-02 21:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by appu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to convince him ... you know he is not gonna meat a monster...so he loves you and you love him.... use deep connecting thing ;-)
2007-03-02 21:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by Hood-Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...!!!
u hav 2choices..!!!!
its left upto u wat to decide tats if u want him..and love him.....!!!
1st...til the last breath in u love him...!!!!!no matters wat happens...give ur 100%.....
if he loves u...he vil come back..!!!!
2nd...if is avoidin u....try to get to know wats happenin thru a common frnd...!!!!!
if he is not int...then pls don waste ur life on him..its no use...out ur mind in sth else....ans do wat ur parents say...!!!!
pls take care...wish u get ur love...
njoy...!!!!
2007-03-02 23:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another boy.
2007-03-02 23:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by toploser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋