well we are seeing each other from past 10 yrs now i realy want a settled life but he cant take any stand for me he doesn't want me to marrry somebody either im confused n sad wht to do plz help me im 26 yrs old n im not muslim im christian
2007-03-02 21:46:16 · 6 answers · asked by sonia` m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lucky you, RUN BEFORE ITS TOO LATE, your independance will disappear once you marry this guy, you will be a 3rd fiddle in importance to him!!! Most muslims have NO regard for their wifes opinions!! KNOw couple of friends did and NOW!!!!!
regrets every minute!!
2007-03-02 21:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to his "religion", he's not permitted to marry you, you are an "infidel" to him. I'm not saying that to be mean, but that is what his religion tells him.
If he "loved" you, especially after 10 years, then he would be commited to you. If he is not, then why pursue this relationship any longer?
I think you've hit a dead end. Perhaps it would be best if you moved on, and found a man who is serious about you.
2007-03-02 21:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by C J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the two of you really love each other and want to be married, someone has to give in. that means either you be converted to Muslim or him to Christian. One needs to give in.
2007-03-02 21:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by boobsy star 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs to be a man and stand up for himself.
If he doesn't want to marry you b ecause of his religion and doesn't want you to marry someone else then he needs to make a decision because you can't wait all YOUR life for him to make his decision.
2007-03-02 21:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are loving and caring about him, talk to him and get married. if he is only for f u k king, just get rid of him. you will get good guys from your religion. y another religion?
2007-03-02 22:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by shaun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is okay that a muslim guy can marry either a muslim, Christian or a jewish girl... tell him that please ... the info is confirmed :)
2007-03-02 21:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋