Hi,
This guy fell in love with me about 6 months ago, he kept asking me out and he was a really nice guy, so i said yes even though i didn't really have feelings for him. We went out for four months and we would fight all the time, he still said he loved me and that he wanted to marry me one day.
I told him i needed a break two weeks ago because i felt as though i liked other people. But he kept calling me and we had sex half way through and we are acting all couply but we're not together. I find it so hard to leave him or hurt him. I love him but i am not in love with him. I just don't know what to do.
Should i just go out with him and see what happens again, or what?
Please help,
Advice would be great
Bria
2007-03-02 21:32:38 · 9 answers · asked by Bria 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go on a hoilday without him and sort yourself out. There lies your answer.
2007-03-02 21:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Bria Im 17 years old too and the same thing happened to me too with this one guy i did not want! ok what u should do is not go out with him ! u should only be with someone u want not someone u dont want cause if ur with someone for the hell of it then ur hurting them more than ur hurting urself! so try to tell him that u care for him but u dont truly love him like the way he does to u ! also tell him to fimd someone else and to not waste time with u ! plus Bria there are other guys out there that u would want to make ur life with so dont waste ur time with this guy either!:D
2007-03-02 21:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As u said he is good person..u stay with him..and get married....because after chianing bf..one agina u feel bad about new..good about old peson..so any u enjoyed with him..try to stay with him
-hhaaaa
2007-03-02 21:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your confused and you need to sort yourself out. he obviously likes you but since you fight a lot and now arent a couple you better stop acting like a couple. he might just be using you atm.
thats my opinion :P
2007-03-02 21:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look Bria....i dont know wat's goin on in ur mind...but as much as i read between the lines ...i can feel that just becoz u cant hurt him....u're fooling him...wen u dont love him..plzz tell him the truth rite now..coz maybe later if he does find out from sumwhere else..u'll be in trouble and will also lose his faith in u !!
One more advice....if u r plannin to tell him the truth....DONT ask him to be just friends !! Let him decide wat he wants to do....coz its very difficult to turn love to frendship !!
Hope that helped :)
2007-03-02 21:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by ღ♥*~Samantha*~♥ღ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u don't love him don't go to him.i think Ur in a state of confusion.
2007-03-02 21:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by princess_me_dream 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are unsure of your feelings, back off and give yourself time honey.. you deserve a break..
2007-03-02 21:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you really feel
if you dont you will hurt him more when you eventually HAVE to
2007-03-02 21:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sean M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it ago xxxxxxxx
2007-03-02 21:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋