only weak people act rude to hide their weakness.
So to avoid them :
1. First of all make your face look calm and cool always even when they act rued to you. This would make them sense that you are not taking their comments importently.
2. Then if possible avoid them for example if you sit near to you a rude try changing your place. Changes always helps my frined.
3. Try to say hi or hello to them, this would definitely change them in a coursew of time.
ALL THE IDEAS WORK PERFECTLY BECAUSE I USED THE SAME METHOD TO CHANGE PEOPLE WHO WERE ACTING RUDE TO ME
2007-03-02 21:04:57
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answered by barath90 1
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Honestly, you can't. People of all types come into contact with you everyday. The only way to stop the rudeness from developing into a further ugly scene, is to be the bigger person by ignoring the person.
OR, you could always deliver this line: Geez, you're polite!
This is for the everyday random people you meet on the street. When it comes to personal attacks and rudeness to you, however, you have to take a different approach.
If a person is rude, stay away from her, but don't be unecessarily nasty. Just say the usual hi's and bye's if the person attempts to talk to you, but you can subtly show the person you aren't happy with them.
2007-03-02 22:09:13
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answered by Chocolate Strawberries. 4
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You cant avoid rude people, but you have a very useful weapon-your sense of humour. Just dont ever get offended by what they say, think how crazy it is that they have to make you feel sad to feel better. Just laugh at them, or when they insult you, smile and thank them. It embarrasses them.
2007-03-04 05:04:16
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answered by Jennifer B 1
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There will always be rude people- the best thing is to change your attitude When I read the book below and watched the video I find I can concentrate on me more and other peoples attitudes are thier problems not mine-
I hope you have good luck and asking such a question shows you are striving to improve your environment and company- good for you!
2007-03-02 21:06:18
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answered by admiredi 4
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You probably cannot avoid all rude people, try to be tolerant and realize that everyone is not a fortunate as you are. Some people are rude on purpose, others are too ignorant to realize they are.
2007-03-02 21:15:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Can't really avoid them, I think, everyone of us sometimes comes across a rude person, we ourselves can be rude if we are annoyed or stressed or angry.
Just remember the workd is not perfectg, there are diferent people out there, strong and weak, so whenever you hear something unpleasant - stay away, it is best, as people who are rude by nature cannot be changed.
2007-03-02 22:11:27
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answered by S from Dublin 3
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Do not pick up the phone if they call.
Do not answer the door if they knock.
Do not answer any emails or letters written by them.
Carry a pair of earplugs, as soon as they utter the first sound, plug your ears.
If they speak to you, look away from them.
If they walk towards you, run away in the opposite direction.
If you are stuck with them, at the first rude word, say "Excuse me, I need to go to the washroom urgently!" and leave immediately.
Don't go where they go, don't look at them, don't speak to them, don't help them, don't visit them. Just don't worry about them.
Say hallelujah when they are gone.
2007-03-03 14:28:12
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answered by Newman 4
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in this world there aree going to be rude people sad but reality and sometimes even we didnt know it someone might think we are rude , keep being nice to everyone and that what you will attract to yourself eventually even rudee people will say what is different about you and turn around
2007-03-04 04:50:05
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answered by cozjeanda 5
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You can't avoid rude people. Nobody can, though. Fighting them is like arguing with reality. and of course, reality wins.
2007-03-02 21:02:23
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answered by PossumNight 3
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Don't go to bars, football games, baseball games, shopping malls, restaurants...
Just close yourself up in your own home and disconnect the phone, Internet and TV.
Don't get the newspaper or read any books... they are there too.
2007-03-02 21:03:21
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answered by Anonymous
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