if your getting married, what will be your wedding vow?

Question

write your own wedding vow.

Answer 1

Same as my mom's ... well... almost...
i just made some ammendments..

:-)
I promise to give you the best of myself
and to ask of you no more than you can give.

I promise to respect you as your own person
and to realize that your interests, desires and needs
are no less important than my own.

I promise to share with you my time and my
attention and to bring joy, strength and imagination
to our relationship.

I promise to keep myself open to you,
to let you see through the window of my world
into my innermost fears and feelings,
secrets and dreams.

I promise to grow along with you,
to be willing to face changes in order to keep our
relationship alive and exciting.

I promise to love you in good times and bad,
with all I have to give and all I feel inside
in the only way I know how,
completely and forever.

Answer 2

I, (say your name), take you (say your fiancee's name) to be my husband. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honour you all the days of my life.

These are the vows my husband and I said to each other. What made it very special and memorable was that we learnt the vows off by heart so that during the wedding we could just say them to each other without the priest having to say one line and then us the next line etc. It seemed so much more romantic and like a vow we were saying to each other (and not the priest!) I highly recommend this, and all you need to do is practice every night if you are worried about not remembering them.

I wish you all the best if the reason why you asking this question is because you are getting married! Well i wish you all the best even if you arent!!! :)

Answer 3

write them i did from my heart to the one i love we had the what you would call church vows and we had our own written vows. my vows took up 2 pages and his 3. we wanted to say what we were feeling and what we wanted to share with friends and family we wanted to let each other know that we were not going into this lightly with blinder on we made promise which we hold each other to. we have a great relationship that i know as long as we keep our vows alive each day we know nothing will tear us apart our love is strong and will survive by God's love and grace and forgiveness in our hearts. we make sure we tell each other we love them before work and school at dinner and before bed we never go to bed angry and we make sure we say were sorry when we are wrong. we support one another and care for one an others needs, we listen with an open mind and we speak whats on our minds. we hold nothing back we are open and honest. we are willing to look back and make a few changes and we are willing to be forgiving of mistakes for they are bond to happen but we also know that we have limits to what is forgivable and whats not. we are a wear of ones needs to be one of the girls or guys we are a wear that there is a we time and a me time. so as long as you can do these things and say them in your vows i think you will be more in tune to keeping them because vows are to be taken very very seriously......

Answer 4

you haven't any longer have been given from now on have been given a vow renewal after basically some short months of marriage. A vow renewal isn't an adventure to "make up" for the rushed, small wedding ceremony ceremony you had initially. you're actually not getting a vow renewal at 19. A vow renewal is for couples that have weathered infinite "storms" of their marriage and characteristic been individual adequate to paintings in spite of the user-friendly certainty that them and also have a renewed dedication to a minimum of one yet yet another. tell your son you would be chuffed to assist a vow renewal for their twentieth or twenty 5th anniversary. basically between you, me & the fence placed up, they could be fortunate to have a 5th anniversary.

Answer 5

I know that it is romantic to do this, but to me it seems all the more stressful, I have things to say that I will say in private, I don't want to say them in front of everyone else. My fiance wants to do our own vows, I just can't do it, it's way too much for me to worry about.

Answer 6

I have to be honest, I'm married and if I were to do this again, which I won't because it is very hard work being married I would never promise to love forever...there is a very fine line between love and hate and sometimes they cross back and forth.
I'm not saying marriage isn't good, it's just hard work and both people have to work at it and at times it seems as if there is only you working at it.
Hope you get the vows you want and you live a full and rewarding life...it's worth it at times!

Answer 7

I haven't thought about it. I guess there's a standard church vow? All I know is that when the pastor stops talking I say "I do." Weddings are so boring. I probably will be too busy trying to keep myself awake to listen to what he actually says.

Answer 8

i am a ole fashioned, traditional girl. my husband and i went with the traditional vows. that is the best way to go.

Answer 9

To lead an ideal life with the wife.
To hurt not each other etc.

But, the reverse happens in reality.

Answer 10

Comes from the heart, didnt write mine down or anything. just said what was on my mind. then i got slapped.......j/k but for real say it from the bottom of your heart and you will do fine