there is this girl i have been going out with for a yr, it was love at first sight and I love her dearly with all my heart. she is always a gentle and caring person in my eyes but recently she suspects me cheating with one of her friend and threatens to breakup . She gets so unreasonable sometimes i want to yell at her, but im unable to cuz i love her so much. what should i do to make her love me again.
2007-03-02 19:26:19 · 11 answers · asked by bigjake a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i never meant to hurt her feelings. all i want is whats best for her.
2007-03-02 19:26:53 · update #1
Well...trust is a very important part of any relationship. With that said...apparently she has some trust issues. You have to sit down with her and have a serious talk..tell her that you love her and would never cheat on her...and if you wanted to be with anyone else you would not lie, but come straight out and tell her. You love her, so of course it is had to be mad at her...plus getting mad is not going to solve this problem, it will only make it worse. Talk to her, let her know...and why not print out this letter and let her see it also. She will know that this problem has been bothering you enough to seek help from others.
2007-03-02 19:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be sincere and honest. ARE you cheating on her? Why would she suspect this?
Spend more time with her, compliment her more, bring her chocolates and flowers once a month. She is insecure that you don't like her like you used to. She probably thinks you've fallen for a prettier, smarter girl and don't care about her anymore. Win her back with kindness, don't yell at her. When she says, "I KNOW you've been out with someone else," ask her, "Why would I want to go out with somone else when the most perfect lady is standing in front of me." You'll definately win her back with compliments!!!
2007-03-03 03:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Iknow you dont want to hear this but she is looking for excuses to break up with you, I can see you are a kind haerted and soft person wich are great to have but I think that has alot to do with why you cant be mad at her try to stand your ground otherwise she will walk right over you. Another option is find someone who will respect you for who you are and not walk right over you.
2007-03-03 03:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because your girlfriend love you so much that she's afraid that you might have someone new..I think in communication is very important in a relationship...do something that will secure her..like your celphone..let her be the one use it for a while, let her know that thier is nobody in your life just her...:)
2007-03-03 03:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by cerillawil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probally likes another guy thats why she wants to dump you....
hang out with her morethan what you uset to! that will help girls like atention trust me!
2007-03-03 03:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, go into the bedroom, look on the dresser, do u see that jar? ok good, now take the jar, open it, remove your testicles, re-attach them to your body, now ask the same question in your big boy voice, and tell her whats up
2007-03-03 03:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by Bad ass car 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It sounds as though her problem is that she is insecure. Tell her how special she is to you and that you would be a fool to risk your relationship by seeing someone else.
2007-03-03 03:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
When you are right in your own way,you dont need to give any explanations.
2007-03-03 03:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not good to yell :(
just talk thru it
sheel get past it once she completely trusts you and noes u will never be unfaithful to her
2007-03-03 03:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
uhhhhh, r u sure ure in love?.
2007-03-03 03:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋