What are the genuine signs that a man likes you and is not playing the field? Is it possible to tell?
2007-03-02 19:22:55 · 17 answers · asked by Just curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all men, play the field all the time, even when they are completely faith-full, some where in the back of their heads their thinking "i wonder what she would be like in the sac" and it isn't even a specific she, just all the she's in general
2007-03-02 19:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men are always playing the field until married, and then some continue. I think that if you feel at ease with a man and he feels at ease with you... just hanging out with no strings attached, thats a good start.
2007-03-02 19:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by jjohnshelli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly Don’t mean to disrespect you, but you have to get your head out of the clouds. If you wait for that one man who is interested in you and you alone, you will be waiting several lifetimes. We are not wired that way.
To a man every relationship is a potential. Love is a broader concept that can encompass more than one recipient. We always play the field, if only in our minds.
The questions you should be asking are: Is he right for me? What can I do to distinguish myself and make him see me? If I get him will it have been worth it?
You are a unique individual. You see love for one man. He sees love for women. You have to help him narrow the field down to you if he is worth it.
2007-03-02 19:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of th signs you might look for are whether he is having a good time with you or with his friends. Another thing to look for is whether he is sincere and fun loving and has a good sense of humor. Another sign is whether he is compassionate and caring as well as kind and giving. Is he a gentleman or a stud? If someone is courteous and thoughtful nine times out of ten he is not just interested in sex.
2007-03-02 19:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Don't sleep with him right away....If he's truly interested in you, he'll keep hanging around. Not just booty calls either.
2) He introduces you to his family and friends.
3) He keeps his word. SOOOOOO IMPORTANT!!!
4) He isn't wishy-washy. He has direct, honest answers---that DON'T seem rehearsed.
5) He actually acts as though he cares about what you say.
6) He's honest---especially about himself. My father always told me that if a man will lie about something stupid then he will definitely lie about the big stuff.
7) He's on time.
8) He gives you space, when you need it.
9) He's not bossy. The first time he behaves in a controlling manner---GET RID OF HIM!!!!!
10) He trusts you. If he is suspicious of you, then chances are that he's fooling around with other girls.
11) He wants to see you before 10 pm!!!!!!!! My father and my grandma told me this one years ago...they were so right.
12) He makes a date to see you BEFORE Wed. for the following weekend.
13) He doesn't disappear for days on end... If he does, that's because he's with someone else who's asking the same questions that you are.
14) He wants to be seen with you in public.
15) He wants to see you under circumstances that don't involve or will not necessarily lead to sex!!!
Ask around. How does he treat the women in his family? How did he treat his last girlfriend?
2007-03-02 19:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by maggiebridget09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im always asking that question myself. its difficult to tell but i think if they are just in it for the looks like big boobs and they check you out heaps or anything then they are definitly playing the field but i rekon man that flirts with you not in a sexual way but in a romantic loving way reaally likes u
2007-03-02 19:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never know dear. Most men are players and we can't guess whether they are serious or playing us. just try to be the more rational you can and don't only fell with your heart. you've got to work your mind.
That's life dear. we are risking something in every step we make.
Good luck :)
2007-03-02 21:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont only time will tell, do you think its worth putting the time in if so go for it if nothing you will have fun on the way
2007-03-02 21:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by Tony T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believed he was genuine when he looked me straight in the eyes, and touched me and held me with love not desperation for his leg over!!! and he sat up with me for 4 nights when i left my husband!
2007-03-02 19:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by apple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way to tell, until you know him for a while.
2007-03-02 19:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋