my boyfriend says he loves me, but he won't let me go on his computer when Im at his house?

Question

he tells me that he just talks with his half sisters, that he has not talk with in years.

Answer 1

Well then you should start questioning if he is chatting online with other girls por if he watches porn but you shouldn't jump to conclusions.

Answer 2

Been there. My boyfriend would always change the web page if I was around his computer. (We each have two computers at our homes, because we love playing in the poker rooms against each other). I know that he also "chatted" alot, mostly for on line sex, which was before me. Now he tell me he wasn't into that, but I am not stuipd. So when I was online at my house, I set up "names" that I knew he would try to chat with. It worked. He was into the dating and being with me, but couldn't be honest about something so dumb as on line chatting. Being a women, I looked deeper, and found out that he would try hooking up with another if given the chance. So I had to cut the ties, even though we already been together longer then two years. Some would think it wrong me not trusting him and finding what I did, but to me, I am glad I did, because I'd always wonder if he was lying.

Answer 3

Hello, Chatter:

I'm not sure how old you and your boy are. But, the general gist of this comes with time.

IF YOU ARE FEELING UNCOMFORTABLE IN ANY KIND OF WAY, then, generally, something is amiss (i.e. wrong).

Do not distrust your intincts. Males, especially the younger they get, are biologically-based, gettin-off-needin males. I know that may be hard for you to accept but it's real.

So, in the meantime. go to "toys in babeland" --satisfy yourself some other way.

And, accept the fact that he's talking to other girls. Or guys. Seriously, he could be all over the map.

Point is, YOU'RE HOT, and go with that. But, he's not being faithful to you and I can say that with about as much certainty as I can say that Olean potato chips will give you diarrhea. Let the messy man go.

Best,
J-

Answer 4

sounds like he's been chatting with other girls on-line and don't want you to catch him in the act. maybe he's been telling a lot of girls on-line that he loves them too. If he got nothing to hide, he would let you use his computer... rite? I think there's something there.. good luck on your search for the true answer.

Answer 5

listen my friend men keeps secret which are and can only be to themselves so dear he loves i agree but he will never let u be to his secret have u ever hear about this saying love all but trust no one. that is what he is practicing,i once agree he loves u and i think that is one of his dont's.

Answer 6

hands off his computer! would you allow him to tamper with your's Computers can be very sensitive you can accidentally press a wrong button I am doing it all the time at work without even realising it so enjoy his company and respect his wishes......

Answer 7

i think he is hiding something...if he really loves you and trust you, he must show you his computer if he doesn't hide something. and if only he talks to his half sister, why can't he allow you to see his computer.

Answer 8

Sounds to me like he could be hiding something. You should talk to him about it, and if it comes down to it, leave him.

Answer 9

You go to his house to visit him or his computer?

Answer 10

whats your question?????

~ ~ either he's addicted to porn, gay, or he's cheating on you. ~ ~ ~

.......he's worried about something, but either way - he DOESN'T trust you! ~ ~ ~

.... this probably ALSO means he DONT luv ya'!

(if my opinion comes as a shock.....whooaah crazy-pants!!!! -Hi!)