im in highschool im 15 and i have had only one gf ever, i really want i girlfriend but i just dont know who. i go to a private school thats really small so there arnt alott of different people i kno most of em already. ugh i just need sum advice on how to get a gf, i dont get the greastest grades is that a factor?
2007-03-02 18:37:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're doing better than most guys I know. Many guys are your age and have NEVER had a girlfriend.
However, I suggest you take a look at a few things:
1) How's your hygiene? A girl doesn't want some greasy, ill-kept guy.
2) How's your style? Do you throw on clothes like you just don't care or does some thought go into your ensembles? Is your hairstyle the best for your features?
3) How do you act around girls? Are you shy, childish, or confident? A girl doesn't want some creep that talks about farting while he's burping and picking his nose. When you talk to a girl you need to be confident, sincere, and most of all, you need to listen to what she says.
4) I was an AP student in high school, so a guy who isn't doing well in school was a turn-off to me. I'm in college now and guys who aren't doing well in school make me want to throw up in my mouth now too.
Chicks can smell desperation on you and when you're thinking this hard about it, you're seeming pretty desperate. Focus on your school work and your appearance and you'll be too busy to be sweatin' the ladies. Then . . . the ladies will come.
2007-03-02 18:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by wendy_the_pyro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dude grades dont matter that much, girls usually like guys that have a nice personality and that arent boring ...just a little weird ..however not too weird... try going out to the mall talking to some girls over there, got to parties and such and try to meet your friend's friends thats a good way to get one ...well I already have one so thats beides the point but yeah that should work
2007-03-02 18:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Juan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have a girlfriend until I was in my junior year of high school (age 17, I think). So don't worry about your age and how many girlfriends you have had or not had; that crap doesn't matter. You also don't want to appear desperate about having a girlfriend. Girls can sense that. Confidence (not to be confused with arrogance) is the quality that girls look for in guys first and foremost. It wasn't until I came out of my shell, got a job, and started acting responsibly that girls started coming after me.
2007-03-02 18:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by God_Lives_Underwater 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, getting good grades is not always a factor (for geeks it is i guess). you are 15 u have plenty of time. Anyways, dont worry, spring is coming up...it's all about perfect timing: if u have good manners and if u are at the right place, u will find urself a girlfriend pretty soon coz u really want it :)
2007-03-02 18:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by echte_sand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best is if you stop searching. You are so worried about the fact that you are single that you might not see the obvious. Your age does not matter, what is important is that you share your feelings with someone you really like and that takes time. So relax and the right person will come along soon. ;-)
2007-03-02 18:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by Tomas R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the whole world is waiting on you..just ask a girl out.. never fear losing something you don't have...rejection is just part of life. get use to it.. You don't have to tell anyone she said no and guess what she will be so flattered you asked chances are the answer will be yes.. Take a gamble and keep your expectations with in normal standards and you will do just fine.. Suck it up and and just ask.. JUST ASK SOMEONE (no way you know everyone you need to take time to really get to know someone not just look at them and say yeah I know them)
2007-03-02 18:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by fnbug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting good grades are always good some girls like guys who carry them selves being smart. You can take a look at the guys who have girlfriends and see how they carry them selves and see if they have good grades.
Good grades will help you in the long run when you’re older and can support you’re family.
Good luck!
2007-03-02 18:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by Just me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question do u want a gf just to have a gf or do u want to be in a serouis?
i suggest that u will just be yourself u will find the right girl just be patient
2007-03-02 18:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by tinklover637 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it! i never had a boyfriend or a kiss until I was almost 17 and now tons of guys like me. you cant push something like that, if a girl likes you you will know and dont think there is something wrong with you. just try to go out more often, hang out with ppl, etc
2007-03-02 18:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why you don't have the greatest grades. no it isn't grades that gets you girls,its personality and looks try talking to a few.Make more friends then maybe something may happen
2007-03-02 18:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by mikef1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋