This past year my yex-boyfriend wanted me back but i was afraid because i knew we would last and i wante d to have fun before being in a real relatonship...He told me he cared and loved me and would always ... but then i told him that i wanted to be with him and he decided to hurt me on perpose/.. no physically ybut he made out with me and played with me and then said it was "revenge" for hurting him in the past.... but he knew how hard it was for me to trust him in the first place.... that saddest thing is that i still want to be with him and i dnt knwo how to chanage his mind............. I miss him and if i cant haave him i cant act the same around him.... so now he is being an asas to em since i havent been talking to him lately.... i have no idea what to do........ i waant him back so much... he means the world to me... plz and thank you
2007-03-02 18:31:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys are pretty needy,and seem to fall in love easy,mostly they want ex girl friends back because they see them with other guys. They also get in a comfort zone and that makes it easy for them to get other chicks cause everyone knows chicks dig guys more when there with someone else.Dont get us wrong ladies we can and do fall in love! but we also make many mistakes which cost us a good relationship.
2007-03-02 18:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by greesemonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to stop the games between you. Tell him you want to go back with him and no more games. He got his revenge and if he's grown up any and still cares for you then all is good. If he declines then move on. Don't make a simple thing tough.
2007-03-02 18:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many things to consider to make the guy back to you. you need to talk again and tell him what you want....... but if he still refused you then give his freedome you can find other guy and much better than ur ex.. God has the reason why those things happen... dont be silly!.... dont hurt your self just move on and find your self again without that guy..... enjoy life!!!!!! hope you will meet the right guy for you!! Godless you!!!!!!!!
2007-03-02 18:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by bmargie_212 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's kind of hard...if you hurt him before then what is going to make him think you won't do it again? we always want what we cant have and when he was good to you you didnt treat him well and now that he doesnt want you, you want him. this happens to a lot of people the only thing you can do is be nice to him and prove that you have changed
2007-03-02 18:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously doesn't know how to love someone appropriately. besides this both of you are as grown up as 9 year olds. don't get back with him and learn some life lessons before you get back into a serious relationship [ie. long-term, involving sex]. dating casually isn't all that bad.
2007-03-02 18:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by tothebeans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without trust you have no real intimacy,
Without intimacy you cannot understand each other,
Without understanding you have no communication,
Without communication you have no relationship....
Sorry, learn for next time as this will unlikely work...
2007-03-02 18:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up girl and dump him he dosent deserve u and get a new bf
if looking around then i m just here
nabil_tahir@hotmail.com
see ya ;)
2007-03-02 18:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by nabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on, he has.... why did you break up in the first place if you want him so bad?
2007-03-02 18:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by Metallico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a great life
look and behave genuinly happy
2007-03-02 18:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋