Okay, for the last 12 years, I've been trying to cater to what I think the guy wants. But it just isn't working. This time, I want to do things the way it makes sense to me. I met a great guy---total gentleman. I am NEVER good at being in a non-exclusive relationship. However, we've just begun to date. How do I let him know that I want to get to know each other one-on-one without it seeming like I want him to commit for the rest of his life? I just find that when you're dating mulitple people, you don't really get to know them...instead, you're just getting to know how they are when they're competing for you in an insecure environment. (I'm 32)
2007-03-02 18:27:46 · 5 answers · asked by rhnotyouraverage1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be honest, open and up front, tell him what you are thinking and see how he responds to it.
2007-03-02 18:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by Angelz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still very young, and just be honest with this guy and tell him you have some feeling for him, and if he would be interested in hanging out sometime. Then little by little something will happen, and if it is meant to be so be it, if not, well then try to stay friends...He sounds like he would be very understanding so don't be afraid, we are in 2000's! Nothing is impossible if we don't make an effort or try!
2007-03-02 18:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by HOPE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really have to tell him, but you can show him. ask him out and just call him on the phone and talk to him. the more you spend time together, the more you'll get to know each other and the feelings will just grow.
2007-03-02 18:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by Alvarez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a brick, tell him you feel theres a wall stoping you two getting to know each other and that you want to break it down!
2007-03-02 18:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by crazinutta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some activities that are one on one, where it requires communication. You have to talk about these things, but still have fun.
2007-03-02 18:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by anastasiagirl7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋