Last night i was talking to my girlfriend on the phone, and she was like, really tired, but she wasn't wanting to go to sleep, kept talking with me. We've been together two months, but we havent kissed, or anything beyond that, but we have cuddled) Eventaully, there was like, a 10 second pause, and she fell asleep. She still had the phone up to her ear and shes laying next to it, and I could/can hear her breathing. For some reason, I sat tehre and listened to it for a little over two hours, and it really calmed me and made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside, because it reinded me of just being close to her. Is anything wrong with me?
2007-03-02 18:12:17 · 24 answers · asked by meh. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since it is your girlfriend I don't think so..
If you did this with anyone else I would say, yes..
2007-03-02 18:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by ........ 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
No, I personally think that there's nothing wrong with you. I think that it's sweet that you listen to her breathing when she's asleep. I think that this shows that you are going to be very devoted to her and that you want to make sure that she's okay at all times. I think listening to her breathe, makes you serene & calm.
I think that you are not obsessed & attached at all. I think that you are strengthening your relationship with her- & that that's not a problem.
I personally think that it is very sweet to stay on the phone and listen to her breathe, because I think it would be really sweet to hear your girlfriend wake up and say.. "Hello." and for you to reply back, "Hey sweetie, I've been waiting for you to get up." lol. I find that the loveist romantic relationship ever.
Go ahead, Go Nab your girl. =]
2007-03-03 02:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. This is LOVE and trust me this is the MOST beautiful thing that can ever happen in a person's life. Be true to her and you will be the happiest man in this world!
" to really love a woman , let her hold you,
til' you know how she needs to be touched
you gotta breathe her, really taste her,
til' you can feel her in your blood,
then when you see your unborn children in her eyes
you know you've really loved a woman."--Bryan Adams
2007-03-03 02:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by amy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did the same thing with my gf. I didnt listen to her that long i think only 40 minutes or so. When i got to my place...where she was waiting... I took a picture and then hung up the phone. So cool... not wierd
2007-03-03 02:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by baldy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
two hors might be a little to much, but you must really have something going if someone can have that effect on you. I wouldn't tell her this but i would say you haven't done anything that isn't to normal. Hope everything goes well with you and her
2007-03-03 02:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
thats pretty weird but i would just say youre in love already maybe a little too attached too soon but just dont let it go to far like that youre obsessed and do something stupid if something goes wrong.
2007-03-03 02:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure. It's still pretty soon to want to go to fast. It's cute but at the same time odd. It's only been 8 weeks. ^.^
2007-03-03 02:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by And For A Moment I Am Happy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No dear! I think you really love every thing about her. maybe you need to be gradually more close to eachother.
good luck, and dont forget this kind of pure love!
2007-03-03 02:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by *Grace* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way is that wrong. That shows sensativity and caring. Dont change. YOu are a rare comodity.
2007-03-03 02:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes I watch my love sleep. I think there is a sweetness there. It is a tender moment for me.
2007-03-03 02:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋