There is this girl ive been crazy abought for a while, we meet last year and later on i found out she had a guy alredy but they were not going out the man is just nuts. but no more than 3 weeks ago we started talking again and enjoyed being around one another. But what happend this time was different, her dad tryed telling her I was suisidel over her and then when she came over to my parents and my mom basicly bitched her off the porch just because she didint like her. And her ex just got out of jail and is now trying to be a daddy again but hes a drug head, shes kinda wild like me but I dont know if shes scared of me now or what because of all the BS, and I do have a crush on her but i never told her. my mom made out like i whanted to marrie her she evein told her that., as you can tell yes i live at home but not for long. But is this fixable!!
I whant my special freind back, and yea i will be honest I was hoping to build something out of it regardless evin if she had kids.
hellp me
2007-03-02 17:40:24 · 7 answers · asked by joshherlein1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can tell you like her a lot.Maybe even love her.Her dad may have heard you say something to give him the wrong idea, your mom knows you well.The truth is you'd probably marry her in a heartbeat.First thing to realize is she is in the relationship with her b/f because she wants to be.She could be working and paying for her own place instead of living in a bad home.When you rescue a damsel in distress, you end up with a distressed damsel and a bag full of woes, the ex b/f will always be a part of her life as well as the kids.Get a job,move out and live on your own for a while before you go trying to take on a woman with kids.Wacth how she lives her life and see if she is really trying to better herself, or just looking for a guy, any guy who she thinks is cute and will keep her up.No one knows women like your mom.
2007-03-02 17:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude give it up. A woman with kids will always have to deal with the kids father or fathers whatever the case. Then the kids will want mommy and daddy together guilt goes a long way. I had one about the same way but always had to talk to her ex everyday even though he just called to talk to the kids.It got old and I split.There are so many other woman out there, and your mother may see something you don't.
2007-03-03 01:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by mikef1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this girl then go for it. Who cares what your mom thinks or her parents for that matter! And It sounds like she likes you to. Dont let a chance of happiness pass you by just because of everyone and the circumstances that might occur. Good luck!
2007-03-03 01:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to her and apoligize for how your mother treated her. Then you ask if there is a chance that you and she can get together.
She is carrying alot of problems right now. so be careful
2007-03-03 01:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say don't give up and try to get her to love you and tell her how you feel...
2007-03-03 01:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by geostrom b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest talk to her if she understands shes yours if not forget her all i can say
2007-03-03 01:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by RIO10GAL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG THE WORLD'S GONNA END! AHHHHHHHH!
... moving on...
2007-03-03 01:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋