I'm confused about my relationship with my girlfriend. I feel that we are too far away from each other. She lives in Massachusetts and I live in Ohio. I want to be with her but the distance is too great for me to do anything about it right now. Perhaps I should just be patient. I care about her a lot...it's just that I actually want to hold her in my arms, etc. I don't really know what to do. What should I do?
2007-03-02 17:11:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can truly appreciate just how you feel. I am in a long distance relationship, we both live at opposite ends of the globe. And wanting to have the person beside you to have and hold is the problem we struggle with the most.
We have “intimate chats” not sex chats, where we talk each other through how we feel when we hold one another, the smell of the other person, their warmth, etc. It makes you feel closer and deeply connected, but it won’t help forever.
Good luck, and keep working at it.
2007-03-02 17:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is tough to be in a long distance relationship.
You just simply have to decide if she and your relationship is worth it. If she is, you just have to hang in there. Try to visit each other as much as you can, write letters, emails, send carepackages etc and try to plan for the future. Do you know when you will be able to live in the same city? Plans like that makes it easier, because then you'll have a countdown :) and it won't feel like you will be apart forever.
Or, if you have the possibility to relocate you might want to do that.
If she isn't worth it, then let her go.
Just don't let go of her, if the only reason you are confused is because you miss her and are longing for her.
2007-03-03 01:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by Safiya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A webcam might make you feel closer to her. Also, I would suggest sending her a shirt of yours you wore for a day (not a messy one), and have her do the same. Then, you can put it on a pillow and hug it when you miss her. I had a long distance relationship with my hubby for 2 years. It lasted because we loved each other very much and found ways to still feel close to one another.
2007-03-03 01:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Hobbitling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you go see her? If you can, you should. I did the long distance thing for over a year, and visits were the only way we survived, that and long calls and letters. There's something about getting a letter, a hand written piece of the person you love, you know?
2007-03-03 01:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by pericles_attack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your choices??? Can you move? Can she move?
Do you want to break up? Keep things the way are right now?
What does she want? What can she do?
Can you plan some time together? Take a train or a bus?
Can you be happy planning a little vacation time together?
Only you can decide what happens next.
2007-03-03 01:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient. Time will tell if you 2 will be together. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2007-03-03 01:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by preppy624 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see her as often as possible. hopefully you two arent seperated for to long...
2007-03-03 01:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you miss her go see her.
2007-03-03 01:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go n see her you need to :)
2007-03-03 01:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by Janet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋