there is this one girl in my school. Popular and she is the type of girl that thinks she is the ****... like ones from a movie. She is known not as a ho but she can get down if ya know what i mean. Well she told a friend of mine that she would go out wit me if I asked her, but i never really got around to it because I didnt really want that kind of drama in my life. Time went by, and last week she added me on myspace randomly. Well today, I was in her class with my friend and she came and sat next to us. When she was talking to me I just looked at her straight in her eyes and she just was talking forever and ever... blah blah, but I never lost her eye contact and she never lost mine. As she went on she began speeding up and began to splur her speech while I just looked at her and listened. What does his mean>? Although I know i would never want her as a girlfriend, I know I am sexually atracted to her. What should I do.? what is this girl thinking about me>?
2007-03-02 17:10:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you already know she likes you, because she told your friend that she would go out with you if you asked. Since you are only interested in her sexually, you should not get involved. It would be unfair to her since you really don't like her in the way that it sounds she likes you.
As far as her speach, she was probably just nervous because she was doing all the talking and you were actively listening but not really responding.
2007-03-02 17:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly... I wouldn't get involved with this girl.
Being a girl myself... I know how girl's minds work and what they talk about when no guys are around (believe me... they talk about A LOT of stuff you couldn't even imagine)
Lots of girls out there (but not all of them) just want a cute guy to "rely on". Given by your descriptions of her, she seems pretty desperate to get you... if you know what I mean.
I don't know this girls at all, but I would definitely look at her social life... Does she have a close group of friends that she is really bonded to? How many boyfriends has she had in the past and how long has she stayed with them?
If I were you I'd keep my distance from this girl... Although it may seem like she isn't realy doing anything that could lead anywhere (besides her "subtle" flirting) Believe me... she is playing mind games with you that you won't even notice until she has got you hooked... I'm a girl and I do the same thing to guys sometimes.
Stick with the honest girls... they'll respect you a lot more, they won't play secret mind games with you, and you won't be considered their "boy toy" and then dump you the next dayfor no particular reason
Hope this helps a bit ;-)
2007-03-03 01:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by make love not war 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she is attractive, but you want someone you have more in common with, (which she will begin trying to show you how much you 2 have in common even though you do not).Tell her all you can see that she has to offer you is good looks and the possibility of sex and you want a different type of girl.You will see a side of her that you would see only after having sex with her and you will realize even more why you do not wnat a girl like this.
2007-03-03 01:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her that you care about her. Girls love guys' attention. But don't get attached. Smile at her, make some nice jokes, invite her for a sandwich or burn some nice CDs for her. Talk abt movies, and then you invite her to the theatre. If she agrees, then it's alright. There'll be the kissing, the petting. But don't show you're too eager for sex yet. Make her want you, don't show her that it's you who need her more. Know how to caress her thighs, and breasts. Kiss her ears and neck. One day or the other, she would die to give you a *******, and then you decide yourself if you want to go further, i.e. have sex. If yes, enjoy, but do not get attached, if you don't want her as a long-term girlfriend. And please, use condoms.
2007-03-03 01:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the win. This is high school, your most likely not going to come out of this with a long-term relationship.
2007-03-03 01:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by Asi Didi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fing retard you better get that girl i slap your dumb *** if you dont or you could simply find another girl thats hot but this time with a mind and not a voice box lol.
2007-03-03 01:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by michael h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste ur time with a girl like her. u get bored of her, and its just a waste of time. find sum1 that u actually like.
2007-03-03 01:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a cold shower.
2007-03-03 01:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have the ok to make a move.....
2007-03-03 01:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by friday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋