13 years together and he doesn't make love to me anymore. We sleep in seperate beds, he is 45 and I am 50. He is a good worker and provider but doesn't seem to be very romantic. I use to be very caring and giving, now I feel like we are just room mates. He has no kids and does'nt want any, that is o.k I have grown kids. He is always finding fault with them and always has negative things to say. They do not live with us. I also work and so we don't see each other so much. He goes to work at 3a.m. I leave at 8a.m. he gets home first and I get home at 6:30p.m. he goes to bed at about 7:30p.m I guess I am just feeling a little lonely.
2007-03-02 17:07:21 · 4 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl you have got to get yours! If he's not putting out go get it wherever you can. You deserve a loving relationship, not a roommate.
2007-03-02 17:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen dolly....please don't accept this as your way of life...I know that the way you have been living is not a LIFE at all.I have lived with my sweetie for 20 years and I know that if he disrespected my children or treated me like his roommate that it would be over.....We went through a slow sex faze too....2 years but we both knew that we deserved more and better for each other so we fixed it....If your guy doesn't want or see the need to fix this then you deserve much better.....good luck doll and I hope it all works out.......YOUR FRIEND IN CANADA
2007-03-03 01:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by Dodgegirl62 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you two need to set down and talk about it. And decide what both your next steps should be.
2007-03-03 01:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you together? If you aren't happy change things!
2007-03-03 01:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋