and i'm not saying she's cheating - a date which i set up for her to go on.
crazy?. the idea actaully orriginated by her. we went out for a year, broke up for a year, and got back. while mending we were very open about all of these wild fantasies we had. one of hers was that she's go out and explore her sexuality with somebody with alot of experience and then blow me away (to this day, i have a signifigant edge over her in the belt notch department).
once we stablized we stopped talking about most of it, and pretend like we never told each other. but we've often talked about this one, and it drives us both wild.
so a freind of mine from college is going to be in town until tuesday, and it seems perfect. he's 'cute' and a ladies man. he won't be in town for long and live far enough away not to be a long term threat. and he's agreed to my conditions (protection and no rough housing)
now i'm home, and she's out, and i have no plans. my mind is racing! what to do?
2007-03-02 17:02:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd do her sister! (If I was a guy) hahahaha
Why did you agree to thisSounds horrible...can't she explore her sexual side with YOU? That's how most girls do it! With their real boyfriends!
2007-03-02 17:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is an interesting situation I don't think I could ever place myself in. I think the only advice I could offer you is to stop trying to think about it. If you like her, jealousy is going to be natural. Keep your mind busy. Watch some old good movies. Play video games. If you're even daring enough, read a book. Do something.
2007-03-03 01:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Singel D 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fantasize about what she could be up to. Take a hot shower. Change the sheets on your bed. Get a bottle of wine and some candles ready.
After all, the idea is for her to come back and tell you about it, isn't it? So set up the stage for her to be comfortable and happy talking to you about her experience. See where you go from there.
2007-03-03 01:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Jarien 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You are mad, i really don't think that there is any love between the 2 of yous, i would never think of going out on a date with another bloke, and he would never go on a date with another woman, i think that the best you can do is get out of this relationship be for anyone gets seriously hurt
2007-03-03 01:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Annemarie E 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
For starters stop calling her girlfriend,but since you set this up maybe her protection will break and she will come back with a good std and give you a sample, serve you right and her.
2007-03-03 01:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I dunno I think you are setting your self up for disaster. Don't guys usually get really jealous about their girls messing around on them? Mine would wanna kick some a**. Are you going to ever be able to look/think of her the same? Isn't it more of a turn on when a girl has less experience?
2007-03-03 01:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH so you're jealous...Actually what your gf is doing IS cheating.She's having sex and possibly something more with this guy you think is your friend.When your dating one person or even married to him/her you do it with the otherperson you are wiht, not a friend...That kind of sexwith someone you don't even KNOW is first WRONG, second UNPROTECTED...I suggest dump her if you feel so freely about that "issue"...
2007-03-03 01:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy_of_4 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I dont get it. She's out and your home with no plans......so, you want to get together with this guy? You think she is carrying out your spoken fantasy without you? what? It's not only normal but healthy to share your fantasies...weather you carry them out (together) or just talk about it...Maybe you should cool out, wait for her to get home and then...wel...get busy! Enjoy, life is too short....Just be safe. (But I have to wonder, if she is your gf, why would you be so willing to set her up with another guy? I have to wonder why she is willing to go through with it, maybe you should think about separating and meeting new people)
2007-03-03 01:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by Poptart 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
first t ell me that you not serious. if you are , you are crazy,
what kind of bull crap is this, if you both want to play this
kind of game then deal with the after mast of this, i would
not want my man with no other women but me.. you are
asking for trouble. and if you are both looking at this to
catch of of who has done it more, both of you have issues.
2007-03-03 01:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
surely you have lost your mind. you're allowing her to cheat. which means later on she'll look at it as no big deal if she feels she wants to do it again sometime. good luck
2007-03-03 01:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋