I have a bf, and I'm his first gf. We're in high school. We've been going out for 5 months, and he hasn't kissed me. Or done anything. It seems like our relationship is growing apart, but I've been acting the same. He's acting weird....what does that mean?
2007-03-02 16:59:57 · 16 answers · asked by FOB LOVE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hai ya,dun so fast 1st. love is slowly gone it one.urs still only study n also still is a students .give time ti urs n study hard in school. dun make u n him unhappy in relationship ok! good luck!
2007-03-02 17:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't got a problem honey child. You mention you are in high school this means you are still young. Also it's only been 5 months. When you mention kiss or hasn't 'DONE ANYTHING'
It appears you've gone further than kissing with other boyfriends. This is his first relationship as you mentioned and he is taking his time, and so should you, why rush into anything. Preserve yourself for that special someone and wait on the right time. Remain friends and enjoy each others' company for now.
2007-03-02 17:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by nightnurse1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means nothing. He's scared. He knows your expecting something out of him he's worried about delivering. He probly knows you've been kissed by other guys before an he's worried he won't do it right and you'll be disappointed. In that case think about it, he really cares about you and he wants you to be happy, he's just to scared to take that leap because in his mind he thinks it might mean losing you if he screws up.
If you want it to progress your going to have to reasure him. Halt all talk of ex's and do not EVER point out your his first girlfriend. If you care about him lead him into a kiss. Or even better you MAY talk about your ex's and say they were all lousily kissers and you bet he's better. Stroak his ego, and he'll bounce back.
2007-03-02 17:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by Advice4U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is only following fashion trying to be a man when he is only a child. He does not know what this is all about. My advise just remain friends and stay away from being intimate. Give it some time and you will soon find out if you want to be just friends or more than friends...
2007-03-02 17:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by zogizee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi .... u being his 1st g/f maybe he doesnt know how to act o hes just nervous cuz hes never done the b/f thing and doesnt wanna mess up...try maybe talkin to him tell him how u feel be honest with him and tell him u wanna know ur special to him... to hold ur hand kiss u u need to feel like ur more then a friend to him if thats how u feel.... good luck hope all works out for u
2007-03-02 17:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by ilangelbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just nervous. He might be asking himself excatly the same questions that you are asking yourself. Why don't you just take the first step and kiss him if that is what you want? Maybe that is all you need to do :)
Or... simply talk to him. Communication is the key!
2007-03-02 17:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Safiya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bf? Gf? You haven't kissed. Gimme a break. You're both wierd.
2007-03-02 17:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by Terence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set down with him and talk to him. Tell him how you feel. He may just be a lil shy around girls. But you'll never know til you ask
2007-03-02 17:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is seeing someone else or just too shy , but 5 months you have to do something :)
2007-03-02 17:07:35 · answer #9 · answered by Janet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kissed my girlferiend on my first date. lol.. he may be shy type. make him feel more conforable like hold his hand, put your head in his sholder when watching movie.. good luck
2007-03-02 17:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋