Hi my name iz Gaby, im 15 yrs. old, and there's a boy in my school that I REALLY LIKE, his name is Luis, and he's 17 going on 18. We met a few Months ago, in these past few months...,we have had A-Lot of communication going on, like talking on the phone, eating luch together,well,... in other words we've become Really close. (Having Feelings For Eachother) Obviously I know it and He knows it. One of the main things ;that bothers me is that, people come over to ask me if "We Are Going Out" , but they say it like if...He's to GooD for Me. and I dont know if this is -ONE- of the reasons that stops HIM from asking me Out. But there is another..,reason why HE doesn't wanna ask me out....(AGE DIFFERENCE) & the reason I know this....is because one of My Closest friends asked him why he didn't ask me out? and he said because of the Age. and that he didnt want to end up hurting me because he REALLY does Care About Me. So the question is what should I do? Move On..OR See what Destiny Has 4 Me.
2007-03-02 16:46:03 · 6 answers · asked by .: Shy Gurl :. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take it a day at a time sweetie, at that age its hard because many boys are looked down on by family or your family because he is eighteen and dating a minor. Even if his intentions are good many people woulld most likely have something to say about it. It sounds like he likes you a lot so just take it slow and let things work themselves out.
-NmD!
2007-03-02 16:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Gaby,
If you have feelings for this individual ask him out! There's nothing wrong for an independent girl to ask for what she wants Trust your feelings and follow them IF you believe to be genuine. And next time you ask him "Why don't you ask me out"? and not your girlfriend. That way you will have all information you need to either start a new direction of finding love or finding love in another direction. Age two years is not that bad. Hope this helps honey. If your friends ask are you going out? Tell them mind your business! Good Luck!
2007-03-02 17:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by jhtrddssssssee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's not going to ask you out and you really care for him I suggest you move on.If he starts going out wiht a perfect girl his age it could hurt you and you say he cares about you.When having a boy-girl relationship that is as friends you can usually not resist having a LITTLE crush on them right?Maybe talk to your friend and see if he has "those" feelings for you, if he doesn't move one but keep him as a freind still.THere's NO reason you guys can't stay friends but not be together.
2007-03-02 16:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mommy_of_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being his friend and maybe his feelings will change in the future. Even if he doesn't end up with you, you wouldnt want to lose him as a friend. Besides 3 years difference isn't that much so i dont know why he's saying that, why not try showing him the mature side of yourself.
2007-03-02 16:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by Lady B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have many rocky roads ahead Gaby. Boys don't care about others' feelings. He's driven by hormones. That's it ... start and finish. The start and finish of this little 'affair' is written on the wall.
2007-03-02 16:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by Terence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on. You may really like him, but do you like him for him? Or do you like the idea of him? Maybe you do like him like that. But are you totally positive he likes you? The age difference is a little bit too much...
2007-03-02 16:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by jjoellecody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋