i think im a pretty nice girl, attractive, smart, and funny. i have a large group of friends and i hang out with a lot of people in my school. but it always seems that everyone else gets the guys and i dont, some of my friends say that im to picky and my standads are to high. why dont guys like me, is it because i wont put out? or is there some other problem, i try to be friendly, nice and evrything in school but maybe im doing something wrong. any advice?
2007-03-02 16:36:09 · 9 answers · asked by lindzzzz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU're JUST FINE! At this stage in your life, all teen boys want is SEX ... and that is it. Since the dawn of time BOYS your age are taken over by the power of HORMONES. Unfortunately these hormones make them think of SEX a lot ... if not all the time.
2007-03-02 16:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by aurearhea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy want what they cannot have. Did you ever notice that you can be so nice to a guy and he will always want the girl who doesn't treat him as well? He will go for the chick who acts the most nochalant about him. Why? Because guys love the chase. If you fall all over a dude and worship him, he'll almost always walk over you. The reason for this is that he knows he can have you. He's conquered you already. There is no mystery, no fun! Most men like that girl with a little bit of attitude. It's that knowledge that she is always gonna put up a fight and never be a pushover. They know they won't get bored. Who wants to play a game that is set to the easiest level? Nobody. You set the level higher so you can challenge yourself. Always raise the bar and keep running. If you do that, he'll keep chasing. Good luck!
2007-03-02 16:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jaimee's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not what the guy's want. It's what do you want? Don't lower your standard to have one of the guys. Think of the "Who was Who List" ten years from now. You will be happy that you were picky and had some decent morals. Some of these people will not be able to look each other in the eyes a few years from now. and you will be grateful to God you conducted yourself well. Hang in there. It will not be forever. Keep it. Don't put out. Save it for your husband. And most of all you may escape that visitor called "AIDS"
2007-03-02 16:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably too smart for any guy to come up to you. Do you really want all the jerks in the world hitting on you? All guys want to do is get into your pants, and they know you have higher standards than that. wait for someone who actually respects you, and you'll be so glad you did. Just continue to be yourself and don't get upset when everyone else gets the guy. Good luck.
2007-03-02 16:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by _hopefull_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know, how old are you? because you sound amazingly awesome, and very often, guys just don't approach awesome girls because they're scared of rejection, or you're just too angelic to be true. don't worry for now, and keep it up. eventually (i know how hard it is to wait) guys will come to you when you stop thinking about it and you lease expect it, so just relax!
2007-03-02 16:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u havent met the right guy
and any guy who doesnt like you because u wont put out is a douche
2007-03-02 16:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still young...idk...guys have to be eying you....umm you defintely don't have to put out with any means...just keep looking good and you will find a guy...don't worry about it...not everyone has bf's and gf's in high school
2007-03-02 16:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to put out "as in intercourse" but something physical would be a start. Maybe your stamdards -ARE- to high.
2007-03-02 16:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jungleboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try and flirt with the guys that you like and they will eventaully start to like you
2007-03-02 16:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Billy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋