Me and my boyfriend been together 4 years and been engaged since December. We got into a argument that led to us breaking the engagement and breaking up us. And he revealed to me that he cheated but I don't think he did. I just think he said that to hurt me more.
2007-03-02 16:31:41 · 14 answers · asked by sexybackmami07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time heals all things,........be strong...if he didn't cheat ,he does want out of the relationship.......he is not the right one....the right one will want you to and won't back out.......don't even let yourself day dream about him.......just move on..hang out with girl friends....give it time to heal,you'll be stronger and smarter for it.
2007-03-02 16:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend honestly did not cheat on you, then he must have been really upset to have come out like that, but whatever the situation might have been I strongly believe he should not have said that. Unless, he really admitted to cheating on you than he should not be worth getting married to. As that saying goes, "once a cheater always a cheater." Don't ever let some guy hurt you, you deserve better. If you're thinking of calling it quits for good, I wish you the best of luck. Stay strong.
2007-03-03 00:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Im no stranger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So he's either a cheater or a sadistic jerk who isn't mature enough to just come out and tell you his feelings for you and/or about marriage have changed. Either way, you are WAAAAYYY better off without him. I know you probably don't see it that way right now because it's still fresh, but in time, you will. Get involved in moving on with your life right now. Give yourself one weekend to cry over him, eat cheesecake and watch movies at home in the dark and when that weekend is over, don't allow yourself to think about him again. Every time a thought about him pops into your head, think immediately of something else. Then, go to parties, volunteer somewhere, take a class or two, hang out with friends and meet new people!
He actually did you a big favor. You dodged a huge bullet here. I feel sorry for the woman he does end up with because he's going to put her heart through a sausage grinder!
2007-03-03 00:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a complete jerk for saying that to you, and you definately dont deserve that. Look i know its hard and it feels like your heart is breaking and i bet your missing him and almost wish he would call you and tell you he's sorry and that he's an idiot. Well most men are dumb and won't admit they are wrong. So my advice to you is to go on with your life and right now is the perfect time to spend more quality time with your family and friends that will be there for you in this time of need. I know it sux feeling all depressed and like life without him is like a slow painful death but trust me you will get over him. Its gonna take time especially since you were together so long and were in love with him but you just have to take it day by day. And remember the only two men a woman really needs in her life are "Ben and Jerry" .
2007-03-03 00:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by Lady B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first off.
1. You will get over him eventually.
2. He prolly did cheat on you, unless he is a total loser with no life
3. just start looking for other guys, it's never too early (unless it's like 5 minutes afterwards because your emotions are more than likely outta whack)
You will get over him, just keep living life up to the fullest, and don't go into depression and you should be fine.
2007-03-03 00:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by A_2__the__E__Adrenaline 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course you will not get over him for a short time because as what you say that you 4 years steady but as time goes by you will realise that he's not worth it to cry with.Come to think of it,if he really love you then he should do something to let your relatoinship be back again.But if you still love him try to do the first move to recocile to him besides you have such a long year being together dont waste that relationship because you only argued for little things..If you do that and still he did'nt accept you then it's his lost,beside you've already try your best..And that only proves that he he's not the guy for you.
2007-03-03 00:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said he did, then he did. My wife cheatd on me and lied even in the facwe of proff, i was going to forgive her for it if she would have told me the truth. If he admits it, tell him u forgive him, and if he still goes nut then he is too immature to be with you. if he acceptrs tell him to be honest and explain why, if he just did it for the couch, he'll di it over and over agian. If he breaks down and promises not to do it again and wont tell u about it then he is sensative to you and cares, if he didnt tell u in the beginning what else did he lie about know what i mean. It is gonna hurt We are a black familt too and i have 10 month son and it is hard but she is not FOR me but herself, same with him.
2007-03-03 00:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by The man 20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he said he cheated to hurt you more then he dosent care about you any more. yeah you will get over him but it will take time just trie to do some other things like go to the park or trie to meet some one else.
2007-03-03 00:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I broke up with my fiance. Then I met the love of my life. We're celebrating our 30th Anniversary this summer. So YES you will get over him and laugh about it in years to come.
2007-03-03 00:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by Dusie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can get over him. Just keep ur head up.....why would he want to hurt you more at all?? Thats not good...i dont care how bad the argument was.
2007-03-03 00:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋