I havent been able to find a girl that is attracted to me. I am 6' 8" 270 pounds and dont think i am an ugly person. i guess i am really shy and thats what makes it hard for me to approach ladies. I really love the feeling of having a girlfriend but havent had one for 2 years now. Any suggestions.
2007-03-02 16:31:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be nice to them
let them feel about u as a hero
then it will work
2007-03-02 16:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by dNv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess that answers your question...be less than 270 pounds. at 6' 8", 250 seems like a reasonable target.
additionally, breaking the shyness will help incredibly. just remember, if you are truly an intelligent, genuine guy then any girl who couldn't talk to you is the unfortunate one missing out.
it's really hard, but you have to be able to just walk right up to someone and strike up a conversation. don't walk into the situation expecting a girlfriend and you'll be surprised how far it can go.
2007-03-03 00:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by shawntolidano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude i have had the same problem. im not bad looking. ive been told i look a lot like Paul Walker, and justin timberlake. but im really shy too. This is how i fixed that.first get drunk. and go to the craziest bar u can. see how you act. take away the craziness and just see how much u talk and what u do. then see how the sobre people react to you. it might be hard to do this since ur drunk but just dont get too drunk. after this, take a mental note and try talking about some interesting things that u found people reacted good to. and talk to people u dont know. so whats the worst thing that could happen. u make a fool out of urself infront of someone u dont know. the truth is u may never see that person again in ur entire life. this helped boost my confidence and help take away my shyness. hope this helps. oh yeah and on this yahoo help this people can be pricks. like that first comment by that girl. b$#%#, thats all i have to say. my friend is 7 feet tall and 290lbs he has a gorgeous girlfriend. they like each other and she is extremely nice. shes short, around 5'5" and 95lbs. and the funny thing is. no one can talk about him cause theyre intimidated. hes confident and thats all it takes. for his 18th we even got him dancing with the coors light girls. and they all liked him. so stand tall and be proud!
2007-03-03 00:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by riley s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so first of all i don't know why everyone is harping on your weight...a lot of women like big guys, including me and i am not a big girl. i know it is hard to be single and i know you have heard this many times, but once you stop looking love finds you. regarding your shyness...you need to try and combat it. women like outgoing, confident men. stop worrying what others will think of you, raise your self esteem and be prepared. preparedness...make a list of conversation starters and practice them in the mirror ( i know this sounds stupid, but it will reduce your nervousness and boast your confidence when approaching women). if you have a good friend that is a girl...go out with her, she can strike up conversations with girls and then introduce you. good luck...i know you will find love soon, just be yourself!
2007-03-03 00:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
6'8" 270 shouldn't be too bad. You need to get out and socialize and make friends. The best relationships often start out that way.
2007-03-03 00:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont worry i have the same proublem---shyness:( lol but ya sound like a really cool/nice guy if ya have yahoo im add me as a friend and i can give you some advice---lilskaterchick1234@yahoo.com
2007-03-03 00:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by lilskaterchick1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you are a big guy...you need a big girl..lol...just keep trying to find someone...or maybe one day...a girl might just magically come into your life...
2007-03-03 00:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm 270 pounds?
is it all muscle or..?
2007-03-03 00:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop trying, When least expected. It will happen!!!
Don't worry.
2007-03-03 00:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by YYZ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋