I am 14 and I like this girl alot and she knows it. I have great looks and a nice personality. For some reason she never talks to me even if she has to. shes always in a hurry to get away from me. Other girls think Im hot and nice. What is the problem? Does she think I am going to rape her? seriously.
2007-03-02 16:27:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the same problem, except Im the girl. I know the guy likes me, and I like him, but he hasnt asked me out yet, and until he does, Im keeping everything short. So ask her out, cuz chances are, she likes you and just playing 'hard to get.'
2007-03-02 16:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by lsubetty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said other girls think you're hot and nice? Maybe she just wants to stand out of the crowd. She doesn't want to go with the flow. This happened to me too around your age. All the girls liked this one boy who was really awesome, but he'd walk around thinking he was the best and everything, and i knew he liked me. I just didn't want to get close to him for several reasons - 1. i didn't want to be like the rest of the girls drooling over him and 2. the other girls would probably be really jealous of me
you never know, she might secretly like you. freshman year is always full of drama (i'm assuming ur a freshman since you're 14?). or maybe she does think you're gonna rape her! haha no i'm just kidding.
oh, and playing hard to get is fun if you know some likes you for sure, to see how far they'll go. i know it's not the best thing, but hey, it's true!
2007-03-03 00:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a 14 year old girl it could be one of two things:
a) she just might not like u. sometimes it doesnt matter how hot u are or how great u are u just dont quit. in that case shes probably trying to avoid u in order to avoid an awkward situation.
b)she might be shy. i would say try talking to her (just small talk, PLEASE dont get too intense with the questions). If she smiles or shows any interest, than i would keep talking. if she seems like shes trying to get away of she seems nervous or squirmy, then sorry to break it to u, but its probably answer "A"
2007-03-03 00:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by wetherbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I am like that too actually. I walk really or even run and people think i'm gonna run over them. But I'm just really shy when I'm near a guy I like.
2007-03-03 00:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably likes you, but she is too afraid to get near you because she is afraid of making a fool out of herself. (no offense intended) so just try to make the situation seem more comfortable around her and around you so that she can talk to you without worrying.
2007-03-03 00:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by need to know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Norman!
I like your "Psycho" movie..........................................
well, there are 2 possibilities about the girl you like, either she is shy, or she was told some rumors about you!
By the way you described her actions, I'd say someone told you some "tall tales!"
2007-03-03 00:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably a very shy girl...give her some time...she'll come around.
2007-03-03 02:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by maryflo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk man...just have to let her be....she knows that you are interested....so you have to let her make the move....maybe she is just shy...you are still young..don't worry about it....i also like seeing a young guy like yourself with some balls...i didn't have the balls when i was 14...
2007-03-03 00:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NORMAN BAITES <<<<<<< i think i found your problem he he
2007-03-03 00:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋