well their is this guy i like and he knew i liked him and he liked me too and i knew he did, and we went on a field trip to washington DC and he was this close to askin me out then this lil hoe came in and he told her he liked me and she hates me so she asked him out and everyone told him to go out wit he cus shes "popular" so he did but he says he still likes me and i kno i still like him but i dont know how to tell him i do and wat should i do about tha lil hoe?
2007-03-02 16:23:48 · 1 answers · asked by lilskaterchick1234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O Youngins'. Well didn't hear to much about any history you shared with the fella so I'd be concerned about how much this guy really means to you. But like most relationships starting out your both not really communicating your true feelings which means everyone else gets to have say and control in your lives. Without having a better relationship with him that goes beyond want everyone else think is best I'd also be concern how well the relationship would fair against your peers attacking you. The only good fix is to talk to him and in the beging thats never an easy thing, shoot it never really gets easier you just get use to it. But he holds the answers you need to both deal with him and that lil hoe. If he is on your side and wants to show you love then everything should work out fine, but if he isn't willing to give up his peer's expectations of him. Then you got a problem and this could be a sticky situation. Ether way like and love hold to different intensities and without him all the way behind the ball I personally wouldn't risk how it might damage the old repitation. But its different dynamics in every school. Good thing to start with is just some conversation and build on it, use your feelings. If it doesn't feel right then it doesn't matter how much you like him, let it go. Because if you start caring too much it only gets harder....
2007-03-05 06:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋