We're in high school. I'm not sure how she feels about me, but there have been some positive signs....anyway, I've tried a couple of times to get her to hang out with me, but she's really busy all of the time. Well, I want to get to know her better, so I'm gonna move in slow. Reeeaaaly slow. How can I get to be buddy-buddy with her?
2007-03-02 16:10:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Movin' in slow? are you crazy? where's the impulse, the adrenaline, and the raw emotion in that? You aren't gonna get attraction if you get "buddy buddy" with her, you are actually taking a step forward, and two steps backwards. I wouldn't even go that direction. (but then again I'm not like most guys, cause I'm interesting, and hot, and sexy lol) but if you want to get buddy-buddy with her I'd say just start up conversation with her, and ask her to work on projects, and help you with homework etc. be creative etc. don't talk about negative things like rape, and iraq etc, because that absolutely KILLS attraction.
2007-03-02 16:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by A_2__the__E__Adrenaline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you better make sure she actually likes you and isn't just a natural flirt. some people don't distinguish between people they like and people they LIKE. and some times the busy thing can be a way of avoidance
sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear but its another side of the spectrum!
2007-03-03 00:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in high school, so, i presume that you are not in the same class. try joining the same club as she does and take it from there. if you want a girl, you should take the initiative and be seen as being serious about it. also, patience and time are important factors to get a girl. good luck!
2007-03-03 00:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a date, the don't be nice. Don't be her friend, or that's all you'll ever be to her. If you do be nice and are her friend and you somehow get a date, it's only because of her being nice and merciful.
2007-03-03 00:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Greg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to keep trying to make her think that she likes you...then if she keeps ignoring you..then she isn't interested..umm just ask for her number....like you want to date her...then you will find out if she is somewhat interested
2007-03-03 00:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋