Why is it men always go for the skinney girl instead of the other girl ...... I am pretty I have a good personality but I am chubby ....Why dont I ever get a chance ???? Why does the girl that has a bad attitude but has a great body going to get the guy??????......
2007-03-02 16:05:00 · 20 answers · asked by fdffhhjyuj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(also im not saying all girls that have a good body have attitudes )
2007-03-02 16:08:45 · update #1
I have alot of confidence .......also im not asking some one if im hot or not this is the answers for the questions i recieved ......
2007-03-02 16:12:16 · update #2
harmony,
You know, it seemed to me that every time I walked up to a lady that wasn't totally emaciated, she looked at me like there was something wrong with ME.
I really don't find 'skinny' people all that attractive. I dunno, maybe it's because they're more outgoing...they meet more dudes that way.
2007-03-02 16:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfsburgh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not always true!
If a man is just looking for a good time, he may be looking for a certain type of woman. But if a man is really interested in finding a woman to spend the rest of his life with, he would be better off finding someone he can trust, and who would be loving, and loyal.
There are a lot of men out there, be patient, and you will find one who loves you for YOU! Finding a good man is like finding a best friend, you may go through a lot before you find one you would want to spend your life with.
2007-03-03 00:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by Stargater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men are like that. I had a girlfriend that was just like you: pretty, good personality, and chubby, with all that said i still liked her. It all depends on the guy. And btw she was not obese and i have an athletic body, so it all depends on the guy. Some guys don't value body as that important.
2007-03-03 00:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many men are visual but some men like their women with a bit more meat on their bones. You need to find confidence in yourself that is what makes a woman truly attractive no matter what her body type. If she is comfortable with herself and shows confidence in herself there is nothing sexier to a man.
-NmD!
2007-03-03 00:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason why nice looking women go out with the men that treat them like S.H.I.T.
I know this one really really nice looking woman who's husband cheated on her, but she's still with him. She's still in love with him, didn't get a divorce and thinks the world of him. He recently physically abused her, and she's now "thinking" about getting a divorce. I don't believe she will.
2007-03-03 00:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SOUND LIKE A GIRL PERFECT 4 ME... THE THING IS THAT YOUNG GUYS ARE JUST JERKS... THAT'S RIGHT JER KS TRY THIS DON'T BE SUCH A NICE GIRL, BE GIRLIE AND ALL THAT BUT DONT BE A CARPET FOR THE GUY YOU LIKE... TREAT HIM GOOD SOME TIMES TREAT HIM LIKE HE IS JUST AN STEAMY PILE OF SOMETHING YOU JUST STEEPED ON SOME OTHER TIMES... PLAY HARD TO GET, BUT DONT BE SO OBVIOUS, I'LL BET MY LAST BUCK THAT YOU WILL GET RESOULTS NOT JUST FOR ONE GUY, BUT WITH A LOT OF THEM... IS JUST MATTER OF BEING MORE CONFIDENT IN THAT AREA
2007-03-03 00:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by doom98999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose some wait and they will be all over u. Or go out with a "chubby" guy.
2007-03-03 00:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by Pac_Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different strokes for different folks. There are many men out there that love women that are not skin and bones, you just have to find them. Don't ever settle for someone that is just settling for you. Hold out for someone who will really think your hot!
2007-03-03 00:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. CoCo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is an asshole. He needs to reflect on whats inside the body, thats what counts. My girlfriend has Some baggage but i love her for who she is and not what she has.
2007-03-03 00:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by NICK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plenty of guys like the chubby girls..but it depends on how chubby...i don't mind a little gut on a girl..but if she is really out of shape then i wouldn't even approach her....how chubby is chubby...basically describe yourself and i will tell you if you are hot or not..
2007-03-03 00:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, are you interested in a guy who wants you for your looks alone? A mature guy will come along and see you for who you are. There are many guys out there. Be patient.
2007-03-03 00:09:09 · answer #11 · answered by Jay C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋