i have been with my boyfriend for 16 months. at the begining of our relationship he and some of his friends went to a strip club. i didnt want him to go but he convinced me that he had to go so he didnt look bad infront of the guys. its been so long but it still bothers me that he went. any ideas or different ways to think about it so it wont bug me?
2007-03-02 15:48:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're worrying over something that happened a year or more ago? why?
2007-03-02 15:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by serious troll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really you have nothing to worry about,all those girls have there own boyfriends or husbands and its away for him to get out with the guys,they need a guys night out as well as you need a night out with the girls,him going to the strip clubs can really help your sex life,he gets all worked up and comes home to you,also maybe you two need to rent some strip movies and watch them together and he may just want to stay home and let the other guys go.
2007-03-02 23:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop living in the past. All you are going to do is pull your relationship down over something that happened so long ago.
2007-03-02 23:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not real, they know it your boyfriend knows it. It is all fantasy, like porn. Even the girls who are really there are in fact fantasy, their names are fake, what they tell you is fake, sometimes they will appear to let you in by telling you the "truth" about themselves but most of the time their telling you a fake truth. Don't let it bother you.
2007-03-02 23:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by Petra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the deeper question is if you should trust a man who will do anything to look good in front of the guys.
Then again, what do I know?
2007-03-03 01:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by alhamdliyesua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋