My girlfriend seems to cry everyday and when she's not crying she seems like she's always mad at me. I don't no what I did. I tell her I'm sorry, but I don't no what I did. I ask her whats wrong and she always says nothing or she doesn't no and tells me she's not mad at me, but sure seems like it. Is she trying to tell me something? Is she breaking up with me? I love her more than life itself and don't want to lose her. What can I do or say to make her happy again? I try talking to her, but it doesn't seem to work.
2007-03-02 15:46:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think hard Khris... what could u have done? If u truly haven't lied, cheated and have treated her well, then she has to seek counselling. Something is wrong.
2007-03-02 15:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by choose happiness 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After reading your description of her, I think you need to talk to her. Let her know how much you love her and tell her that you will be there for her no matter what. Make her feel secure about your love and only then ask if there is something she wants to tell you. You probably wont get an answer right away, but if you keep building her trust in you, you will get it. If it is something serious she needs to get help, a major depression can be really harmful and most of the time it is not discovered on time. So dont break up with her, just be a nice gentleman and a sweetheart of a boyfriend.
Good Luck
2007-03-02 17:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by wisv2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be you, something else might be upsetting her and because she feels comfortable with you she could be subconsciously taking it out on you. She could even be depressed, in which case it's really important to find out. Try talking to her, when she seems calm, instead of approaching it like, are you mad at me, then ask her if everything is going OK, bring up that she hasn't seemed happy lately. If it is you then figure out what can be changed to make both of you happy not just her.
In the short term just do small things to show that you care, bring a flower, go out on a walk and just talk about random things, go to the movies, just do fun things together.
She might not tell you immediately, but keep asking and showing her that you care and either she'll tell you or maybe it'll pass and things will get better, if you think she is depressed try and encourage her to talk to somebody, if she doesn't want to see a psychologist, she can even talk to her general practitioner. I know it sucks feeling like you have to do all this work, but hopefully it's just a temporary down spot.
2007-03-02 16:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by Pineapple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, seriously, for a second I thought that you were my boyfriend talking about me. I do the same stuff to him and it really pisses him off, and it makes me feel worse because it makes him upset. truthfully, us girls suck. It's true. I don't know why we are always emotional and cranky, or why we have constant pms, but we do. I, as a member of this sex, apologize for our stupidity. Now, to answer your question... she might be upset because she might feel like you don't love her anymore. We dwell on our thoughts and emotions that we make up in our head, so we do get upset at absolutely nothing. She probably isn't trying to break up with you, and if she was, she is just causing herself more pain by prolonging it, but it is not a likely factor. When she gets like this, you should just sit her down, and tell her all the things she wants to hear, such as how much you love her more than anything. Be poetic and make her smile or crack a joke to make her feel better. Other than that, we are all lost causes and there is nothing no man can do to help. I hope everything works out.
2007-03-02 15:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by _hopefull_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems she is taking advantage of you being there and she likes the attention. I don't see how you could love someone who is so selfish as to make your life hell to satisfy her attention fits. I say break up with her. I would never put my man in that situation. She is totally spoiled and just wanting the attention. She doesn't seem to care about you or how you feel. It's all about how she feels.
2007-03-02 15:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by reneesingsmsk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to understand whats in the girls mind well its not hard it virtually impossible live with it. Its better to be quite most of the time.And about making her happy small gifts, romantic dinners,flowers are a few things that make them happy for a little while.Chio!!
2007-03-02 15:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by sanjeev a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dont give up on her,if u say u love n care 4 dis gurl. Sit her down and talk 2 her and tell her how u feel and tell her how much she means 2 u and u dont want 2 know dat she crys becuz of u and dat u will do wut it takes 2 make her happy and things rite between u 2.
2007-03-02 16:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by BeAuTiFuL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just support her and show her you care, whatever you do DON"T BREAK UP WITH HER!!!. Have you rang her parents to see if anything at home might be making her like that. Something serious MUST be going on somewhere. Try cuddling her and taking her out places at sunset and just show her that you are worried and do care.
Make sure YOU ARE THERE FOR HER!!!
2007-03-02 15:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by crazinutta 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she is going through a bout of depression. Sometimes people just feel gloomy without knowing the reasons why and take it out on the people they love without meaning to.
2007-03-02 15:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when she is not around talk to her friends and see what they know. if they look at you like you are a weird person then yeah you did something wrong and you have to fgure out what that is. on her birthday hopeflly its coming up get her something big like ballons and flowers, but if her friends are not sure and they think she is acting weird then maybe she wants something or she has done something that she is craving to tell you but is afraid of the way you might react
best of luck
2007-03-02 15:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by alejandra611 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋