AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. I TOLD HER IT'S OKAY. IT'S NOT OKAY. I WAS IN LOVE WITH HIM. ALL I'VE BEEN TRYING TO DO IS GET BACK TOGETHER WITH HIM. ...of course, i haven't talked to him in a while, BUT STILL!! COME ON.. SHE JUST SAID YES WITHOUT TALKING TO ME FIRST! OMG, I JUST WANT TO SHOOT HER!! okay, i'm calm. but, i mean, it could be good b/c him and i could start talking again or w/e, but i can't see them together. i don't want to lose her or start drama, BUT I WANT HIM BACK!!!!!!!! HE'S SUPPOSED TO BE WITH ME NOT HER!!
2007-03-02 15:39:03 · 17 answers · asked by cdun1111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in the same situation,and I think and know that you need to talk to your best friend,cause keeping that to your self isn't going to make the situation any better,If you still want him tell your friend what's really up? But honesty you and your friend shouldn't let any guy come between the two of you.
2007-03-02 15:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa sweetie, you need to take a ride on the chil train! As long as you act selfishly they'll both reject you, but if you're their friend, and I mean honest friend, then they'll come back to you even after they're not dating anymore. If its something you really can't handle then take the opportunity to make some new friends and then when time has let the feelings die down a little then you can get back with these two.
I only say that because of the current situation. If it wasn't OK then you should have tactfully said it really would bother you. If you had been open about it then that would be different story.
2007-03-02 15:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long were you two together? If it was a long time, then your friend should have allowed time for you to get over him before she moved in.
If he is "supposed" to be with you....then he would be.
This is all out of your control. You can step out of the drama and find new friends.
2007-03-02 15:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did tell her it was okay. And since they're together now, there's nothing you can do to break them up. In the meantime, throw yourself into something you care about, spend time with friends and family. Once your ex sees you enjoying yourself, he'll realize what he's missing out on.
2007-03-02 15:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by Rosie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's why they call them ex, he is with whomever he ends up with, you weren't ready, she was, why should he wait on you, maybe forever. we don't always get what we want. most of the time people don't end up together because one of the 2 wasn't ready. it wasn't him so it musta been you. you can't force yourself to be ready. life will make you ready in due time and your time will come. let it go and develop yourself to become ready for "the one".
2007-03-02 15:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the forest, it have many types of tree, so does man it have many type of man. Why can't you get a grip, as he is not the only one?
2007-03-02 15:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your friend the truth and if she doesnt care than she's not a good friend. thats what i suggest. or try to make him jelous with another guy.
2007-03-02 15:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Miss Nikki♥ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She doesn't sound like a friend to me. I would forget about your ex and your supposedly best friend.
2007-03-02 15:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by Izzy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
...whoa.
Here's a lil lesson for you. Just because you love someone, doesn't mean every thing's going to work out.
2007-03-02 15:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by serious troll 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
try explaining this to her and if shes not a beeyotch then she will understand and back off.
2007-03-02 15:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by mary m 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋