The only time I see her is 3 days a week and only after school. I'm too scared to go close to her.
2007-03-02 15:24:42 · 15 answers · asked by ben 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your in a situation very much like me!! I like this guy but am to shy to ask him out!! Just smile at her, talk to her and try to become her friend. If she likes you she will probably look at you a lot. If your to shy, get a friend to ask her if she likes you or even get a friend to ask her out for you. Plz do yourself a favour and take a chance! Your not going to lose anything by asking her out and if she says no who cares!! She wont hate you becoz you like her, she might even like you more if you tell her you like her. ASK HER OUT!!! goodluck.
2007-03-02 15:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by ~ Girl ~ Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has alwaz worked with me and my friendz, if u get shy around the girl their are many wayz 2 get her attention u can
A. Go about life norm. but look her in the eye and give her a heart warming smile every onece in a while, it makes her find u mysterious so she'll want 2 no more
or
B. Get a friend 2 se u up on a blind date sort of thing, act all suprised when u get 2 the date
Both methods work trust me i have friends who did that and hav been in a relationship for months/year
2007-03-02 23:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by bebedol27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you need to do. It's like stage fright. Get in front of a mirror and talk to yourself. Act like the figure in the mirror is that girl. All you have to do is go up to her sometime and talk to her. Ask her what her name is, where she goes to school, tell her your name you get the point, but don't get too personal. Anyways after a little while just ask her if she would like to see a movie with you or if she would like to go somewhere and get an ice cream. It's just simple stuff like that. Start little and work your way up. If you get like best friends or something, she won't want to go out with you. That's because you would be more like her brother instead of boyfriend.
2007-03-02 23:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same with me!! I like this guy in year 10 (I am in year 9) and i am to shy to ask him out. haha i think his name might even be called Ben. Anyway I usually only see him after school and i wish that he would just come up and talk to me! I know if i like him i should be the one to go up and talk to him but i am to shy!! This girl probably likes you to, so just go up to her and talk to her! Say hi, my name is ......, then wait for her to tell her your name, then say do you want to go out some time? It's very embarrasing but you will NEVER know if you dont ask.
2007-03-03 00:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't just ask her out out of nowhere. Try to gradually move into her "circle" so you can spend some more time with her. After you've become known to her just start like small casual conversations, and when yall because ok friends, thats when to ask her out. If she seemed to be complying with the rest of it that is.
2007-03-02 23:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by Zombie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance and try.. the worst she can say is no and then you can move on, im a girl and i kno that i would let a guy down gently and so would most girls, so next time you see her, take a deep breath and go make a casual conversation and somehow work a date into the mix!! who knows.. maybe u will get a girlfriend
2007-03-02 23:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by pointegurlie7706 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow, if you're nervous why don't you try becoming better friends with her first, get to know her more. If you build up the friendship maybe then you will feel more confident telling her about your deeper feelings...
I believe that most good relationships start out with being friends with the person first.
2007-03-02 23:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by somedaywillcome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to overcome your shyness and talk 2 her (ha, i need 2 take my own advice!) she may like u back, so try talking to her and if you are still 2 shy 2 ask her out just be her friend for now. if u want u could get a friend 2 ask her out for u but NEVER ask her out in a note!
hope this helps! good luck!!!!
2007-03-02 23:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by Omgitsme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats how im like, i dont like to talk to guys i like because then my face turns all red but then i just think to myself he is only a friend. anyways well have you atleast smiled at her once? said hi? do you know if she has a boyfriend? if not start becomeing her friend, it is going to be hard but you have to find the courage to, trust i have been through this situation before. well then once you really start to know her ask her if she wants to go to the movies or something sometime or someplace to hang out like starbucks or randalls they have a starbucks and really good pastries but anyways so yeah ask her to something small like the movies and then see how it goes,
best of luck
2007-03-02 23:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by alejandra611 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite the bullet - remember if she says no, there will be another occasion with another girl. If it works out though, so much the better! Good luck!
2007-03-02 23:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋