Why do people say "Don't look for love it will find you" How is it going to find you if nobody is looking?
2007-03-02 15:24:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha i read your question & i started laughing lol .. cuz for a while i thought the same thing .. but then i found out if you have a room of 100 ppl .. & you tell them all the same thing your bound to get at least 10 that dont do wat u said .. or do it correctly .. as humans we are proned to rebelling & while that is said alot of ppl arent expected to listen so that statement means for those that will listen & thats not the whole world .. lol ..
hope this helps lol ..
chriisy
2007-03-02 15:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, you put some deep thought into that, but it's just a figure of speech, don't take it literally. I'm guessing that you are not a master pickup artist, or a stud because if you were, you would know that you are able to create attraction. But anyways, if nobody is looking, then love would always happen accidently, and which it sometimes does, so I guess this question is semi-figurative, and semi-literal.
2007-03-02 23:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by A_2__the__E__Adrenaline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really a confusing statement, since you really have to look right, but what that signifies is that let things happen naturally and dont try to be so desperate when it comes to finding someone it takes time, it means that you have to learn how to love yourself and life first and after that you will see that while on the journey you will encounter the one that is meant for you,love is not a game
2007-03-02 23:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha they don't mean it so literally. When people look for love they usually act more desperate or go for just anyone because they really want to be in love. If you take things slow and let whatever happens, happen, you are more likely to find love
2007-03-02 23:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that the saing meant really meant for love at all, i think it"s more like not in every relationship or everyone you meet look for other meanings like friendship because i believe you haft to become friends first and you haft to earn trust .
2007-03-02 23:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by april_williams10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what they mean is "you will find love when you are not looking, unexpectedly" it does happen. my first true love happened that way. it was amazing. but maybe it wont happen for you. just dont look for a relationship, that is the key.
2007-03-02 23:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by score8500 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question, Clinton! Try flirting with women. Of course, nothing is guranteed.
2007-03-02 23:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
2007-03-02 23:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by princess cc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋