I was going out wit this girl for 2 months and talked to her before for like 4 or 5 weeks everday on the phone and at school before i went out wit her... she cheated on me for a month out of the 2 months we were going out wit her first true love...he didnt know about me and i didnt know bout him...she told us and we both broke up wit her...she gave me a note saying how sorry she was and that she still has feelings for me 3 weeks later afetr not talking much...and i really liked this girl...wut should i do...
2007-03-02 15:15:06 · 15 answers · asked by Daniel M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about it. This will happen over and over again...
2007-03-02 15:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by choose happiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umms . this is a tough one . i just got out of this situation but the other way around & i said " ok i forgive you " & we went back out & everything was good .. but he did it again & so i forgave him again & again .. & i thought i really loved this kid but i guess that itsnt wat love is .. so anyways i finally told him that i couldnt do it anymore & he got mad & we didnt talk for lik 3 weeks & then we started talking & we became good friends & we just hooked up ocasionally & then it hurt to be with him & then no that he was with other girls .. so i had to break all the ties .. but lik ur choices are to 1 . forgive her .. 2 . not forgive her .. each on of those roads leads to another .. with 1 . everything can go good .. & it can never happen again (( highly doubtful )) or she will do it again & apologize again & think that it will work b/c it worked the first time .. road 2 . you could just b friends or you could possibly not be friends .. but the question you need to ask yourself is " whats more important her as a gf or her as a friend ? " b/c if you forgive her & she does it again .. youll most likely break all ties & then she wont even b ur friend .. so think about that question & you will have ur answer ..
hope this helps
Chriisy
2007-03-02 15:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get lost. Your heart may be broke for a little while but if hse is going ot cheat on you for 1/2 the time you were togeather what makes you think she wont do it again? If she really likes you she would have been with you only
2007-03-02 15:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by motherof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may't "get" her to open as a lot as you. she will be in a position to open up if she feels mushy - yet sounds to me like you adult men have some themes that are complicating your relationship. the advice i'd provide is - don't be a million) too determined, or 2) too pushy. merely be your self, have a fantastic time mutually with her - yet don't be throughout her in any way. ok, she has this loopy theory that you merely opt for her for sex; properly, do not elevate sex in any respect, save your fingers to your self, and benefit from the communique. i'm no longer extremely certain what her problem is - i do not get it how can a lady be with someone for 2 years, and be confident that this man or woman is merely mutually with her because of sex; that is merely stupid. It sounds to me like she, herself, doesn't understand what she needs - and it will be style of a risky problem for you, as you need to get your heart damaged very really. merely be careful, ok. solid success.
2016-11-27 01:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think u should talk to her and tell her tat she has alot to prove cuz *She cheating on u before and she could do it again* Dnt try and move on just yet (wait a few) cuz she could change for the better and things can turn out!
If u ever need anything else u can email @: godsbaby42@yahoo.com
*Much Love* **God Bless**
2007-03-02 15:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Step back and let her find her own direction. You may have just had a very short relationship. Just because you like her doesn't mean anything as far as direction goes.
2007-03-02 15:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by Clarence B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is but one lesson to learn in life...there are times to turn the other cheek and there are times to turn around and walk away. This is a walk away time. Unfortunately, most of us (me included) don't walk away...we are the ones who have to learn the hard way.
Which way do you prefer to learn?
Good luck.
2007-03-02 15:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by no free rides 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a total loser! wow... she lost two guys! She is destined to get one of you back. She probably sent him the same message or something similar. Any girl who would do that to can't be trusted!
2007-03-02 15:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Ditch her and find someone who will truly appreciate you for the wonderful person you are.
2007-03-02 15:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by liebedich85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up AP History.
2007-03-02 15:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by Brandon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Daniel...
Find your self another chick Bro!
It seem it wont work out for the both of you.
You like her and she like him, it will end up she with him, Get it!
2007-03-02 15:23:53 · answer #11 · answered by Ice Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋