what do you think is better?
should i stay where i am, hope to be found
& wait patiently for "the one?"
or should i move around, flirt & SEARCH for him?
2007-03-02 14:49:44 · 21 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love cant be found it just happens....so just live ur life completly normal and when it happens ull know and ull keep hold of it
best of luck with that
:)
2007-03-02 14:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by dr.eddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u search, u will find guys, but they will not b the right ones. Try to wait. That is the best thing for this . . . OR at least I think so, and so do many other people. GL!
2007-03-02 14:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say... just wait. because going around and searching for the right guy will make you "boy crazy." and believe me, it has happened to me. besides, everyone has someone that loves them. therefore, you have someone that loves you too. that person is out there somewhere. you just got to be patient and just wait.
2007-03-02 19:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by maryflo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
searched for sure. chanced on, not yet. yet then perchance our searches for 'actual love' shop us from seeing and engaging in existence to truly discover that good individual. The dream of actual love is efficient. perchance we could in basic terms look at each and every individual because of the fact the flair actual love of our existence and artwork at that particularly than making the hunt extra considerable than the guy.
2016-10-17 03:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why flirt
that's a game that get you predictable results ( never good )
you need to have filters in your search
the filters are core values you value and he must have
use the filters to reject those who do not meet what you want and more importantly .. need ...
be un erring in rejection...
it's a slippery slope when you let something slide even once
as that opens the tacid door to allow other behaviours and traits to get in
fail to heed these and you be attracted to the wrong guy
don't wait to be found
as the good guys are generally taken first
2007-03-02 15:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankie it depends on what kind of guy really floats your boat. If you like effeminate guys, go search and snare.lol. If you like aggressive or assertive guys let them find you. But it's ok to go places where people are. It's how you behave when you're there. I meet lots of people when I swim for eg.
2007-03-02 20:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Search, move around, flirt, date(with integrity).
Be ProActive.....
Go after what you want in Life and in Romance.
2007-03-02 15:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try searching and if you don't find the one then try waiting.
2007-03-02 14:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by Hilary Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the old Van Halen song goes, draw the line and meet them halfway; try both approaches simultaneously and see what happens.
2007-03-02 14:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be found...some things are worth waiting for...True Love is one of them.
2007-03-02 14:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait (but don't hide) and be found.
Or go searching and have some fun flings!!
2007-03-02 14:54:41 · answer #11 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋