I met this girl while playing soccer. She is kind of good looking and good character she had I thought so I have been playing with her for a year. I kind of enjoyed her company but I never really tried to make my girfriend because I am one of those stupid shy guys and I have some acne in my face. When I told my best friend about her. He told me to go after her and make her your girlfriend and so other things like to have sex with ...... I really kinda wanted sex if she would want.When I introduced her to my best friend, my best friend started to make all these dirty jokes with her and my best friend is guy (he has money , car, and other stuff) unfortunately I dont. One day my best friend called me and told me that he going out with the girl I thought would be my girlfriend. Not on the first date but second .The next day I saw him he told me that he kissed her and they are going out with her and he asked me if I had any problem. even though I had but I said No. He simply stole my gf I.
2007-03-02 14:49:32 · 12 answers · asked by Rocky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, was she your girlfriend? It doesn't seem like it, Anyway it was a rotten thing for him to do... however... if she is so shallow as to run away with the first bloke with a fat wallet she isn't worth it. Your friend did you a favour. AND she did you a favour exposing your friend as a back stabber.
2007-03-02 15:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by choose happiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk! I would try to find a new best friend if I were you cause this guy has no consideration for your feelings.
Don't introduce anymore girls who you're interested in to this guy.. obviously!
I would tell him that you think he's a prick for stealing the girl you had already said you were interested in. See what his excuse is..
Weigh the pros and cons of being this guy's friend. Is he worth it or not? Let this one slide if he meant that much to you.. but if it happens again, drop that loser.
2007-03-02 15:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by •√¡rgő• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are seriuosly in love with her, leave both your girl friend and your best friend for ever if she doesn't agree. but as final touch to satisfy your heart if it really doesnt bother you even if he kissed. tell her what you are and what you hold and reveal her that you love and explain to her about you taking your freinds help to get close to her and what he has done to you in turn to you. her if she agrees then ask her quit the relatoinship with your best friend and so should you.( if you are still cannot reveal this then show her my suggestion this will help her to know what it means in holding relationship with her every thing that you want to express your feelings are framed with the depth of love towards her) AFTER ALL LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL AND SO IS LOVE CHEERS!!
2007-03-02 15:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by lapd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he take something that was never yours anyway?....Friends come once in a life time GF can come a dime and a dozone , as for your friend she will do him the way she done you so no need to worrie...You found her im sure you fine someone new and with more resp.....Good Luck
2007-03-02 14:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by flyangel1118 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should be honest and should have been when he asked you. Also what a friend and don't even worry about the girl she seems careless, since she's talking to you and is dating your friend now. There's more fish in the sea. Oh, buy Proactive it works. (I think that's the name)
2007-03-02 14:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by nutty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the girl and ask her al about it and see if see is a gf of just a friend. and tell that u like her but dont take it to far behind the line.
2007-03-02 14:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by hnt t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a total jerk, but in the future, please don't lie about these kinds of feelings when someone asks you. You've got to tell the guy, "I tried not to let it bother me, but I couldn't believe you did that. You're not a friend, man."
Have some self-respect, and please please don't hang out with this cruel, disrespectful person again, unless he comes to you with a genuine heartfelt apology. Don't talk bad about him, but don't spend your time with him. Screw him and his car. Other people have cars.
If you ride with him in his car you'll cringe under his power over you. KEEP YOUR POWER. It will grow inside of you. Don't get in his car again.
Take care of yourself.
2007-03-02 14:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. well you should be trueful with him and tell him that it really bothered you that he took the girl you wanted. its too late to take back what he has already done, but teenage relationships dont usually dont last long and you should try to go out with her when she and your friend break up (not right after though or you would be sinking down to his level)
2007-03-02 14:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by pointegurlie7706 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, for one, money and cars dont matter. if a girl likes you it shouldnt matter what you have. i have a bf who has nothing as well and i love him unconditionally. i love him for him, not for what he has or doesnt have. what i am trying to say, is there are girls out there who will look past your acne and look past the fact that you dont have money or a nice car. there are girls out there who will like you for who you are on the inside. so dont worry about it. also, no need to be shy...girls like to hear that they are pretty and that they look nice. just tell a girl that and heart will melt. girls want attention like that. dont be afraid to put yourself out there. if u need any help just click on my avatar pic and it will take u to my page and u can email me. hope this has helped u out a little :P
2007-03-02 14:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should hav acted more quickly if thats how u feel and also if he asked if u had a problem with it u should hav said yea i do, and he nos that u liked her b4 him
2007-03-02 14:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by jordan n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋