OK. Here is my question: I had a great relationship with a wonderful woman. I practically lived with her. The in November she went on vacation with her girlfriend. When she came back she told me I drank too much (and made a list of all of my other faults) and made me take my stuff out of her house. I asked her if she wanted to break up, that that would be ok. She said no, she judt didn't feel compfortable me having keys to her place. Then, for 2 1/2 months we were in contact almost every day but never saw each other. To make a long story short, I called her out on it and she told me that she never meant to give me false hope and that a clean break needs to happen. That was a month ago. (I gave up drinking altogether 2 months ago.) So, when can I call her, what do I do and should I bother? I miss her.
2007-03-02 14:49:31 · 14 answers · asked by Tireless 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't call her. Remember she made a list of ALL your faults. You'll get over missing her but you'll never get past knowing how many faults she thinks you have. Move on and find someone who thinks you're good enough even if you aren't perfect. Congrats on giving up the drinking. That was a good decision and I hope you stick with it the rest of your lfe.
2007-03-02 14:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont call her move on. This just sounds bad take it from me sometimes its best to move on! There are probably a 100 girls out there for you just not this one. Because the chances are if it didn't work out the first time it wont the second. And that time you wasted you could have found the love of your life.
2007-03-02 22:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by jamesclaytonmillican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try but it sounds like she might have someone else. She hasn't contacted you? Well when most women are fed up there isn't too much you can do about. I say try and call ASAP. There is no limit and time with love. If she doesn't seem interested then leave her alone.
2007-03-02 22:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm Glad you gave up drinking..and that you chose to do it* Stay with it*:) Obviously she didn't like your drinking..and realized she just wants to be friends. Not sure what made her make that decision, but you need to respect it and move on. Sorry..Love hurts.......and you just have to pickup and keep on going*!
The best thing you can do now is continue not drinking...and meet someone who will love you for you* Keep on SMilin*
2007-03-02 22:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep agonizing over it, you'll never get over her. She's obviously over you. Take your new found good qualities and look for someone who will love you for who you are now. The sooner you move on the easier life will get.
2007-03-02 22:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by ingramrr5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time but till than move on
2007-03-02 22:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by marie_worriedpregnanywithnoone16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there, dude. It's a losing battle. Give it up right now and you'll save yourself so much trouble.
2007-03-02 22:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by AZ123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her in do the right thing so she want b that mad apologize man and move on hata block her with another women she'll get jelouse but move on
2007-03-02 22:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by lakia j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I 'm not that good at stuff like thie either, but you could set up a romantic date?! Good luck
2007-03-02 22:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont call her. move on and find someone else, who wont be leaving you so easily
2007-03-02 22:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by lizziemoffles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋