im 15 and ive been going out with my bf for 3 months nowand were both ready to have sex, but i dont wanna get pregnant {even though im on "the pill".......and i dont want my mom to find out.........i love him very much and i think hes "the one" what should i do please help!!
2007-03-02 14:39:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont.trust me.i just turned 16 two months ago and a little before, i had sex with my boyfriend of a year who is 2 years older so he also turned 18 two months ago...we were both ready and i thought he was the one but after the first time we realized its not the right thing to do yet,also my parents found out cause i freaked when his condom slipped and told my cousin who is 21 for advice and she told my parents...they dont talk to me and they didnt let me see him for the first couple months and now they let me see him once a week(we have a class together and are both on the tennis team at school so we see eachother every day but hang out once on the weekend)i rhink im probably one of the lucky ones too.just dont risk it.when youre 18,then maybe ask if youre ready..but for me. im gonna wait a long time.
2007-03-02 14:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a mom of three children. I think at age 15 you are way to young for sex. When you agree to have sex you are saying yes that you are ready to have a baby. You are to young. really you want to wait untill you are older matter of fact you should wait untill you are married. Do you know at age 15 what love is really about?
2007-03-02 22:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by Missy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very easy for people to tell you to wait, it's more difficult for you to listen. If you decide to do it, be careful. Don't skip a pill, and if you are on antibiotics, don't rely on the pill - they will decrease the effectiveness. You could always use a condom or contraceptive foam as a backup. And remember, pregnancy is always a possibility. If you don't believe in abortion, you need to be really, really careful. And, don't forget about the possibilty of STD's. That can be scarrier than pregnancy.
2007-03-02 22:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by carol a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think your ready you should be at least a little older so you dont get pregnant. You might think hes "the one" until you get pregnant and he leaves. Make a decision lets hope its the right one. And make sure b4 every time that your guy is checked and negative for HIV and AIDS.
Hope dis helped = P
2007-03-02 22:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by Shutter Speed Is All You Need 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mandy its ur life and when it comes down to it u have to make the choise. but a little adivise form someone looking from the out side. your only 15 the chances of finding some for life is kinda slim. your the only one that can regret anything in your life.
2007-03-02 23:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by jimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your married sweety, 99% of girls say the first time was with the wrong guy and didnt find out unitl after and they wish they had their virginty back
2007-03-02 22:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by Elias 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think you're ready, go for it. Maybe you ought to just do oral until you get a little older.
2007-03-02 22:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have seX when your old enough to take care of a baby 15 is way to young so skip it
2007-03-02 22:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh please girl, get a life. ur 15 and thats wayyy too young to think he's "the one". u have no idea what love is yet. keep ur head in the books for now
2007-03-02 22:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by chanoah_7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl go for it have fun you guys have been going out a while and you love him! make sure he wears a condom and your on the pill so you wont get pregnant sweatie go for it!
2007-03-02 22:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by lanna g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋