was i a pig with her yesterday ?

Question

hi , i am from india ; i am 36 and met a girl of 22 . we hit it off first in chat then in phone and then a very nice date . but her family is very conservative and will not approve a love marriage so she refused to accept any calls suddenly . she is also a person suffering and getting medication for several brain trauma problems . she just became a different person suddenly . i waited for 11 days but could not forget her and she told me to stop it . i had to pick a fight with her or i could not forget her . i had to let out my emotions and since she did not believe in a dignified parting i felt i had no choice but to get into a bad bad argument . was i immature .... just how much can a guy take .... you date me .. your family objects and you drop me like hot potato.... hell there is a limit to being a gentleman too . and to think all those january winter nights when after working 10 hours a day i had spoken and been there for her at 2 am when her head was aching and she needed me .....

Answer 1

no, you're only telling her your true feelings..

Answer 2

your still a boy
if you get upset if a girl rejects your becuase of her family
then move on
there are like what 6 billion people in the world
50% are at least women
and you can't find another?
come on!!!!
women are a dime a dozen
easily replaceable
you set your sites way too low
no women is ever worth getting upset over
none
there are many good ones
to even think about and pursue
to deal with the worthless ones like her

Answer 3

I understand you problem. You weren't a pig yesterday for arguing with her. As for what to do in the future, chat with her online and tell her you want to take things slow. Also, take time to get to know her family. If this is something you are serious about, you will have to understand that her parents aren't goint to be over thrilled with you. Offer to take her and her parents to a nice Indian resturant. They will quiz you with questions but it will also be a more comforting environment for you.
Good luck,
Me

Answer 4

awwwww! I do feel bad for your side of the story. if she has a serious brain injury it can effect the way she acts a lot. but if her parents won't accept your relationship and let you date, and if you can't overcome that then it's a shame you had a fight but this is not going anywhere anyway. better luck next time!

Answer 5

I don't think you were a pig.
But, I think you have to know when to just stop talking and walk away.
Her and her family obviously made a decision and voted you out.
If she agreed to that, then she wasn't very into you at all any way.
Be the better person, just stop talking, picking fights, and chasing her around, it's only making it worse.

Answer 6

I realize you feel like she led you on but she has changed her mind about you two. You can't force someone to feel what you feel. Just keep looking and let her go. Becoming obsessed about her is not going to accomplish anything except get you labeled as a stalker.

Answer 7

Hey Ari, drop this problem before she takes you and your bank account for a ride. Trust me, I have been there myself, run away as fast as you can. You will thank me next week when a new "Hottie" enters your life.

Answer 8

You weren't a pig, you were human. It is natural feeling bad if someone just walks away from you like nothing happened.

Answer 9

You are the most long-winded whiner I have ever encountered. Trust me, after one date with you, I'd run like hell too.

Answer 10

Be angry, just remember you deserve better than that. Save that energy for a woman who will love you just as passionatly!!

Answer 11

damn yer caption was decievin..i thought i was gonna read about a sex scandal but instead i read about a retarded woman with a guy who is a sissy
get over it
and deal