My friends told me that they will let me know what they're doing tonight since it is the weekend.....I found out a while ago that they all went out. None of them are answering their phones.
However, other than this time, they've all let me hang out with them, we did stuff together on weekends, they stuck up for me to other people, they've been there for me...but for some reason today....they've decided to be bitches.
So are they really my friends? Or do they just not want to hang out with me tonight?
2007-03-02 14:29:57 · 9 answers · asked by cutecollegegal08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably they got mad it you.
2007-03-02 14:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Orange? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they all went out, and none of them are answering their phones (I assume they all have caller ID) then it is pretty obvious that they ditched you.
Have you had some kind of arguement with any of them lately?
Did one of their bf look at you or talk to you ?
Was there anything that happened lately that would make any of them get the others to ditch you like that?
Your wording of your question makes me wonder if you ever really considered them friends at all.
You say "they've all LET me hang out with them".
They LET you???
but tonight, they are not lettng you.
Thats speaks volumes.
I would find some friends that are honest and up front with you, these girls sound to me like they are the "I'm too good for you " type" and they may be using you for their amusement.
You say they have stuck up for you and been there for you.
so where are they tonight then?
Do you think that if they cared about you as a friend and about your feelings, they would at least answer their phones?
They know it's you calling, but no answer.
Time to go find some new "friends".
2007-03-02 22:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to spend every waking day with someone in order to prove to them that you are their friend. Actually, less is more.
Perhaps you were asking too much of their time.
If so, then you may be getting shut out here.
To see if it is temporary, I'd start to hang out with some others until they decde to let you back in.
Or, you can say to yourself, "Screw 'em. I don't need them."
And, you know what? You really don't.
2007-03-02 22:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by DrRJP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that's happened to me too. I wouldn't take it personally if this is the first time. maybe they're all in a loud place and can't hear their phones. or maybe I'm just making excuses and they really didn't want to hang out with you. if it's a chronic ongoing thing they do, then no they are not your friends.
2007-03-02 22:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are a very "needy" person maybe you should try hanging out by yourself or getting a pet. Not trying to be rude just honest!
2007-03-02 22:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by BlondGrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl in this world there is no friends the only one that are going to be there for you is your family and sometimes own family even turns there back on you friends are just to have fun
2007-03-02 22:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by Vicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no friends anymore because of my own behavior and I know that they just want me to clean up and everyone I am clean know come see two days and it is hard without any support .
2007-03-02 22:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just for today, they kept somethin from you.
i mean, i`d talk to them if i were you. don`t just assume
stuff. =] gl <3 & if they`re not good friends, ditch em.
you`ll find better friends.
2007-03-02 22:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them
2007-03-02 22:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋