there is this guy i have known for ten years. he is 13 years older then me. he is also married but we still had sex. now im am going to have his baby. we have feeling for each other and we do say i love to one another. now he only says i love because i can give him waht his wife cant. a baby. i am afraid he might try to take the baby once its born. what should i do
2007-03-02 14:25:46 · 7 answers · asked by crazygurlizsexy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I don't think he can legally "take" the baby unless he can prove that you are an unfit mother. ( Finacially unable to care for the child, or would put the baby at risk for due to poor living conditions, etc) If none of this is true, he may want to take the baby, but I doubt the law will allow for it.
Hope that helps!
2007-03-02 14:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by DLZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is tough. Sounds pretty sticky to me. The first thing I would do, is STOP seeing him. When the baby is born, on the birth certificate when they ask about the father put unknown. I will tell you why, if he does decide to take you to court for the baby, he will have to prove paternity. Which means he will have to pay for it. But honestly, it sounds like he is scared that you will tell his wife about your affair. I don't think he really wants the responsibility of being a dad.
2007-03-02 22:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by luv4u05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he can prove that you are an unfit mother, he can't take the baby. not only that, why would he even try? it's not like he can go home with a baby and say "look what i have honey!" his wife would flip out.
2007-03-02 22:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful.. He may have set you up to have a baby for him and his wife.... He could take the baby and say you are not fit.. I would contact a lawyer...Just in case
2007-03-02 22:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally he can’t take the baby. You are the mother, he is not you boyfriend or husband so you don’t have to worry about that. Have the baby and be happy
2007-03-02 22:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Natalia D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes imagination will not be true "I am afraid" on what evidence and senses.
2007-03-02 22:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by shaikhmohdmusa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GOD HELP YOU NOW!!!!!!! I HATE TO TELL YOU BUT MESSING WITH A MARRIED MAN MAKES YOU A WHORE! YOU DESERVE EVERYTHING YOU GET. SORRY BUT WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND IN THIS LIFE!
2007-03-02 22:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋