IM GOING OUT WITH THIS BOY THAT I REALLY LIKE. HES IN A HIGHER GRADE BUT HIS BEST FRIEND IS IN MY GRADE.NOW THAT WERE GOING OUT HIS FRIEND IS STARTING PROBLEMS AND MAKING RUMORS ABOUT ME AND TELLING MY BOYFIEND.NOW THERE GETTING TO THE POINT WERE THEY HATE EACH OTHER. AND HIS FRIEND IS TALKING CRAP BEHIND HIS BACK. I DONT WANT TO BE THE GIRL THAT GETS IN THE MIDDLE OF A FRIENDSHIP BETWEEN TO GUYS. SHOULD I BACK OFF? HELP!
2007-03-02 14:25:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi There, You can ask God to help you out with this. He will help you out. Good luck on it. Be brave. God loves you. God bless you.
2007-03-02 14:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your bf's friend what's going on, and if he gets defensive, just say okay and back off. Tell your bf what's going on, and just hang on tight. If the friend opens up, then problem solved. If he lies (or maybe he's telling the truth??), then confront him. Don't come on as arrogant or aggressive - show him that you just want to talk. If this gets much more complicated, just back off and hang on tight. You might let your friends know that the rumors are untrue - like the rumors spread, your word will too.
Good luck, and sorry that you're in this sticky situation.
2007-03-02 22:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by ksdancer1993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats he friends problem he probley likes you too and is getting a litle bit of jellen in himand is trying to breck you too up so don't back even if some of them are true or not?
2007-03-03 11:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by pinkalishes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice, stay out of it. say "I don't want 2 b between u 2." have some time away. go 2 a slumber party with ONLY girls!
2007-03-02 22:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by :kjelseth: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all...if u like the guy dont back off...u need to talk to them each individually. ask ur bf's friend what his deal is...ask him why he is at mad at ur bf. maybe he thinks that u are taking his friend away...ask ur bf why he is mad at his friend...maybe its just cuz his friend is mad at him....then get them two together to talk, or better yet 3 way call them...hope this helps :D
2007-03-02 22:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, it sounds like your boyfriend's friend is jelous (sp?). This is how younger guys behave towards girls they like, plus this kind of thing will eventually cause fight between you and your boyfriend. I would confront the friend and ask him what his problem is....
2007-03-02 22:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by Ben 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seems like your boyfriends friend may have a crush on you also... or he may just be jealous that you are taking away attention that he would be getting from your boyfriend otherwise...
2007-03-02 22:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by vneck 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't control the other guy's mouth.....just try ignoring him --maybe he'll go away or MOVE
2007-03-02 22:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋