my daughter's 8 and she' had sex?

Question

how would u punish her

Answer 1

Are you serious?
Do not punish her. Send her to live with relatives who love her deeply and would protect her from pedophiles.
Please call the police and turn in the person who raped your little baby.
Also, your screen name indicates that you may not be very sexually responsible yourself. Again, your daughter needs to be with some one who sets a good example and takes good care of her.

Answer 2

Just a minute ago you said your daughter was 5 having sex with an 8 year old. Get your story straight, and by the way if your 5 or 8 year old daughter was having sex (I don't think this happened ) I would punish you seeing as how it would be your fault. If this is even true then perhaps you should spend a little less time on here and a little more watching your children.

Answer 3

Thats really a problem. Kids these days have so many pressures than we did. When I found out my 14 year old was having sex I sat her down for a long talk about sex. Then we found a therapist. No my health insurance did not pay so I had to pay the bill while we there. The insurance did cover her meds. I know that money can be an issue. If it is try looking up mental health clinnics. They are federaly funded and they can also provide meds. If you have a nonemergency phone # and they will be able to give you info on mental health phone #

The next thing you MUST do is take her to a Dr for a physial and birth control. They can also help provide information od STD's. If shes already having sex you can't stop her but you need to take a proactive stand. This is to mportant to just pretend it will not happen again. Good Luck.

Answer 4

First she needs to be checked out by a doctor. She now is at risk for STD's. Then she and you should see a counselor. Punishment is probably going to backfire. She needs your emotional support. Why did she feel the need to have sex, who was it with, is she planning on continuing...? You need to understand how this happened and then take steps to prevent it from happening again. There is no question that she is too young, so how was she able to get in this apparently unsupervised position? At 8 yrs old you should know where she is, who she's with, and what she's doing. If counseling is not an option, then you need to have a heart to heart talk with her and explain all the ramifications of sex (pregnancy, disease..). Then there's the question of prosecution of the other party. You definitely need to monitor her comings and goings much more stringently. Just remember to let her know that you love her, no matter what she has done or will do and that she can always talk to you.

Answer 5

Oh, my goodness. I don't know that punishment would be appropriate and what would it accomplish. If she has started her period I would certainly take her to the doctor and put her on birth control. I suppose I really don't know what I would do in this situation except for sit her down and try to understand from her perspective how this happened at such a young age. I would also make sure she understands all the rammifications that can occur from such a decision. Most of all I think you need to reassure her that you are there for her and make her understand that she has made a very adult decision and she is still very much a child. You two need to really have a heart to heart with each other and perhaps seek counseling for both of you. Also, one more question, where the heck is the boy that participated in this? How old is he? Have you contacted his parents? This is just a very bad situation for all of you and I am very sorry that you and she are having to deal with this. May God help you through!!!

Answer 6

UMMM, how does she know about sex at her age? Why was she left alone with someone that would not watch her better than that. There is a huge problem with this question.

For one you do not seem to be too upset with the fact that your 8 yr old has been violated, and why would you punish her....she should not be knowing anything about sex at her age at all. I would suggest punishing the one who had sex with her.....and if you allowed her to be alone with this person....then you should be charged with child endangerment, and you too should lose custody, and go to jail.

Answer 7

Punish Isnt The answer.
DOCTOR asap Is The Answer.
Ho Could You Ask Such A resonable Question.
What Kind Of Mother Are you..?

Answer 8

First find out who the person she had sex with is. Then go to his parents and get them a clue as to their son's degenerate behavior. As for your daughter, hopefully she isn't pregnant, I would probably punish her by walking her to school, meeting her after school and attending and staying at all of her after school activities. I have always found that embarrassing them in front of their Buddy's is a wonderful punishment. If you haven't yet, and it's not too late, talk to her about the consequences of sex including stds. Be blunt and make sure she understands.

Answer 9

Instead of punishing your daughter, maybe someone should punish you! Where were you and what kind of mother would let that happen? It's a lack of attention and discipline. I would also find the sick person who had sex with her. Bring her to a doctor!

Answer 10

i don't think being a mom you have not punish her yet. but yes i would like to say that 1st try to find out the reason that why she did this toyou and your family, then tell hr its result,if you try with coll head i think you will easily control her.And regardin punishmen you have all the rights coz you are her mom and only mom can feel the pain, when she punish her child.And yes keap an eye on her and her friends,may be she is in wrong company.