If you have had a brief sexual affair with a very experienced man who really knows his way around the lady parts (bringing you to Orgasm 3 times!!!), how does one know you are up to his standards? I feel really sexually inexperienced compared to this guy, and it's just a casual thing so I don't want to be that insecure girl who outright asks if i'm good in bed! When we've been together, we have sex at least 3 times per night. He's 37 and i'm 28, and we don't really talk or have anything in common except we both want to get laid.
I don't want a relationship with him, just sex, and i'm not even sure I can do that because I dont' feel a spark between us and good sex is just 'good' not 'amazing' if the emotional connection is not there. Plus, his house is dirty and he's a little socially inept and he lives over an hour away.
Regardless, I'm just wondering how a girl is supposed to know how a guy feels a woman is up to par sexually for him. Serious answers only please. Thanks!
2007-03-02 14:21:04 · 1 answers · asked by foreveryoung 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The frequency 3 x per night is a sure indication that you are very desirable. Eventually even the best ones fade away. You don't have to worry about this yet. Just bang away. He'll run if you start the emotional bs
2007-03-05 13:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by B N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋