Ok, well, I originally wasn't going to make any more plans, and was going to wait and see if he makes any arrangements.
But a really good opportunity came up. I was going to be home all by myself for once (I'm 21 and still living with my family). So I messaged him about it and he rang me and we arranged for him to come down to my place. We even arranged that should he miss his train he could catch the next one.
I went to the station (50 mins walk), and waited. He didn't get off the first train. I rang him - no answer. I rang him a few minutes later, again no answer. Thinking maybe he left his phone at home and caught the second train I went into town for a bit and came back to see if he got off the next train. He didn't.
He hasn't answered any times I have rung, and I've left a few messages too.
This isn't the first time he hasn't showed up, but last time he rang and explained he missed his train.
Is there any chance for a relationship, or for casual, or anything?
2007-03-02 14:19:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He rang me and apologised. He said he got really sick, and was at his parents house and had left his phone at home. He's going to come down tomorrow.
2007-03-02 15:16:01 · update #1
Ask him
2007-03-02 14:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move ahead to better people and places. He is a big L. . A guy will call, and if he stood you up he's not worth your time find you someone else don't waste your time. It's OK to be 21 and live with your family. Just work toward your future and don't be set back from one guy. Don't call him anymore and waste your valuable time. Don't answer when he calls you. If he continues to call and you decide to answer ask him whats up and tell him your dating someone if you don't and you keep on seeing him you'll suffer on down the road, because he will do it again. Head up Move on.
2007-03-02 14:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by rainingonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be a chance for a relationship but not a very good one. If he is acting this way now when he should still be trying to impress you imagine how he will act when he is more comfortable.
If you want more of this treatment then go for it and find out. BUT to be kind to yourself and save more of these questions later (and heartache) don't try for a relationship with this guy.
He isn't worth it.
2007-03-02 14:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen, you do not have to walk 50 miles to meet his train because you have the pu$$y. a wise old woman once taught me that. the only excusable reason for a man to stand you up is death. his own or someone in his family. this situation you described above is pitiful, drop his @$$.
2007-03-02 14:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a pretty inconsiderate guy. Would you >want< a relationship with someone who holds absolutely *no* regard for you??
2007-03-02 14:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need someone you can trust.Without trust there is nothing that can work out.Also respect and it sounds like
not even calling you should tell you something.
2007-03-02 14:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by sharen d 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him go...he's got no respect for you. Unless he's got a damn good reason for missing this one. And not just missing his train.
2007-03-02 14:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Tina D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be with someone that has stood you up more than once?
Does this make sense?
Guido
2007-03-02 14:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is none. He didn't want to come and he made empty promises just to get you off his back. Sorry.
2007-03-02 14:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by Haveitlookedat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋