she broke up with her boyfriend because he made negative comments about her friends (I am one of them). Now she acts like I am supposed to be grateful for this and expects me to be more then a friend to her. What do I do?
2007-03-02 14:15:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she is taking things out on you that she shouldn't be. There is nothing you can do, other than let her know that it hurts your feelings when she takes her anger out on you. Ask her if there is anything you can do to help her deal with her anger/hurt in a positive way. The breakup is still pretty fresh in her mind. But honestly you do not owe her anything. You can distance yourself from her for a while, if the other choice doesn't work for you. Give her time to grieve over the broken relationship.
2007-03-02 14:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by Haveitlookedat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u want to be more than a friend to her? If so then what's the problem? Maybe u r just reading into her actions too much. She is probably just leaning on her friends to help her adjust to not having a bf. U should just be there for her as a friend if that's all that u want.
2007-03-02 22:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder what her boyfriend thinks of her and why they broke up. Ask him, but be sure she's not around. You might learn some things about her that might tell you to get away from her. And she has no right to to assume you are going to be romantically involved with her.
2007-03-02 22:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You owe her nothing but your friendship if that is all you want. She would've found any reason in the world to breakup with her boyfriend. It's just an excuse. She may have feelings for you that she doesn't want to outright admit.
2007-03-02 22:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she thinks she has done the right thing by " you" and is expecting something in return. you need to talk to her bout what she expects and if you willing to do what she asks. i personally think you don't owe her anything..... obviously she thought she was doing the right thing but wanted something in return.
2007-03-02 22:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by just_jemma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more than a friend
maybe this what she wanted all along and that's why she really broke up with her boyfriend
2007-03-02 22:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by fatmoma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that breaking up with her boyfriend was her decision. If she's not happy with that decision in retrospect, too bad. Not your problem.
2007-03-02 22:32:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you don't owe her a damn thing. I stick up for my freinds and don't expect a damn thing back. kinda what the whole freindship involves.
2007-03-02 22:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now..dun act too fast...or she might mistake you...care for her extra much
2007-03-02 22:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by Remus L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable help her with this. Tell her only her freind.
2007-03-02 22:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by white rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋