I am 15 years old and i ve been with this boy for a year we broke up because he was too jealous and we fought every day we broke up for about 1 month he still wants to be with me but i feel that am too young to be in a serious relationship and i feel that he is too jealous he doesn't even ley me be with my best friend nor study with my classmates! what should i do? PLEASE HELP!
2007-03-02 14:04:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, leave him and run like hel l coz think about this, u wont live these days of your life again and remember one life one soul and one decision. Dump him, otherwise he will have pleasure of doing that to you and u will feel so very regretful when u become 30-40 about ur teenage time ... Hurry up and leave him...
2007-03-02 14:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by AllsTar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie i know what you are going though big time i have been there i was with this guy and every thing was going good and we got married and then every thing went down hill he would not let me talk to none of my male friends or family he said i was sleeping around on him and before i had my son i caught him with another woman and he was very very jealous and he was a wife beater and i left him we are not together and i think your ex needs to move on i have been married 2 times and both of my ex husbands was jealous and my first ex still wants to be with me but he knows it will never happen and if your only 15 you have your whole life to find the right one for you it took me a long time to find the right one for me and me and my boyfriend are happy and we love each other vary much i just don't want you to make the mistake i did and get married to young i got married the first time at the age of 19 and it did not last and was doomed from the start my family did not like him at all but you have your whole life and my 2 husband never layed a hand on me till we got married we are now divorced and it was the best thing for the both of us hang in there i would not jump into a serious relationship until you feel the time is right for you
i hope this helps
2007-03-02 22:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by free spirit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing in leaving him. stay strong and stay with it. He sounds controlling. Just stand your ground and refuse to give in. If he continues to want you back and gets more demanding I would talk to some one about it. There are too many young women out there getting stuck in unhealthy and dangerous relationships. Remeber that you are you and no one should be telling you who you can spend your time with. And you are right you are young for a serious relationship. Have fun and enjoy being young. Good Luck!
2007-03-02 22:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by Katie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is borderline obsessive and controlling. I think that you need to brake it off with him. He will be hurt and angry - and if he tries to hit you or can't take a hint please tell your parents. I think that you should just tell him that you need some space and that you aren't ready to be in a serious relationship because you aren't prepared to settle down yet. If he tries to date one of your friends or someone you know (he might just do this so don't be surprised) just turn the cheek and move on. He might even try to spread negative rumors about you around your social circles and at school - ignore him. Don't let him scare you. Don't be scared.
God Bless. Good Luck.
2007-03-02 22:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too early to be in love, that is if you are. Tell him your need your space, don't be so jealous. Just prove to him that your faithful to him. He's just scared or worryed that you might cheat on him or do something behind his back. Maybe you should take some time off together. If you two were meant to be together, you'd work something out. good luck
2007-03-02 22:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by ** i Am hiS giRL ** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and most important is, you are too young. You have you whole life to get involved with someone who is mature and trusting. Stay far away from this young man, because he sounds like trouble. Talk to your parents about this and if you don't feel comfortable with that, talk to one of the councilors at school.
Good luck
2007-03-02 22:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by jan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sort of in the same category with you..i would do whatever you think is right..if you think it would be a waste of time for the both of you to go back out just to fuss and break up, you can try it like that..but i would def. move on..especially if he keeps getting jealous of you. But on the other hand..he really must like you if he keeps getting jealous of you....
2007-03-02 22:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by imacheerleaderk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing you could do is ditch the dude. you are a little too young for that serious of a relationship, and keep in mind you have a lot of freedom right now so have fun before its too late
2007-03-02 22:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your decision, young lady. It's a smarter choice than some of these fools on here are making.
A jealous/controlling partner is a very, very bad thing.
2007-03-02 22:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by kelannde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that boy to leave you alone. And if he doesnt talk to someone like a teacher at school or your parents. Allert the police if you have to. If the boy cant take no for an anwser.
2007-03-02 22:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by Christa Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋