I am in a situation where I cannot have a child. But my body wants one very badly. It is a constant hunger and makes me very sad/depressed. I can accept things with my mind, but have no control over the emotional pain. This has been here for years.
What I want to know, from anyone with experience, is if this biologically driven pain goes away over time as a woman's hormones change and she is no longer biologically able to become pregnant. Basically, I want to know if others have experience this and if there is *hope* for the pain to disappear one day. Please share any experiences.
Thank you.
2007-03-02 14:01:26 · 2 answers · asked by steffie3 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I'm so sorry for your pain.
I am not in menopause yet, but I am in perimenopause and have friends who are post-menopausal. I think that once you are a baby lover, you will always feel "mushy" over them, but maybe not the same level as pre-menopause.
I sincerely wish you well.
Good luck.
2007-03-02 14:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Croa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and about only hope would be a egg donor. And that is not cheap. My sister is in the same spot you are. Until she started looking into egg donor. It was like she was morning the loss of her option to have another baby. Now she is all excited again.
2007-03-02 22:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by sparksgirls6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋