me and my boyfriend just broke 2 weeks ago,i cant get over it i still love him so much what should i do?

Question

me and my boyfriend were serious about our relationship,3 months passed in the relationship he wanted to marry me and asked me that he wants to propose to me to my parents but he needed time .so on the 5th month he started changing, he stopped calling me as much as he used to, he used to call so many times during the day.he didnt take me out as much and he stopped spending much time with me. i couldnt take it any more i asked him whats wrong, i said what should i do...should i move on or should i give more space....he said to me to move on and that he isnt going to hold me..and that he isnt ready for any relationship...3 days after it was his birthday, i didnt call him because i was very hurt ...i called a day after his birthday i asked him to give me back my money that i let him borrow, so he brought me some of the money and said he is going to bring me the rest some other day.he was asking me how i was and gave a hug ,i want him back should i tell him that i cant get over him ?

Answer 1

i have just been through the same thing so this isn't going to be easy to hear. whenever someone starts talking like that so early into a relationship just walk away because they are a dreamer. he stopped calling and spending time with you because he is with someone else already. believe it or like it or not he left you for someone else just not in so many words. him giving you a hug is just an attempt to lessen the blow. i understand that you weren't ready to let go because neither was i, but trust me. if you take him back or go crawling back to him all you are doing is setting yourself up for more pain. just bite the bullet, grit your teeth and go through the pain and move on. dont get a rebound guy either. give yourself enough and plenty of time to get over this. He said he wasnt ready for a relationship because he never wanted one in the first place. its sick, and just rediculous that people act like this but it happens so much. there is NOTHING wrong with you so don't think that you did something wrong. if he left you like that it means he found someone else nothing more. find someone that will treat you better and move on cause you dont need that garbage. if you need to talk anymore just IM or e-mail me. remember pain is temporary don't give yourself more than you can handle by getting back or trying to get back with this jerk.

Answer 2

Don't tell him you want him back. Because even if you two go back, he will still be not ready for anything. You had been together for 3 or may 5 months, so it should not hurt you this much. Try to control yourself. Get the rest of your money and do not see him again until you are over him.

Answer 3

from the sounds of it u r young and 3 months into a relationship is not long enough to even think about marriage although your heart is broke in time u will find someone new and y did u have to borrow him money if u had to borrow him money how could u get married doesnt sound to supportive

Answer 4

He may come back to you. Just give it some time. Call him from time to time. Don't lose touch. The hug was a good sign. But he shouldn't owe you money.

Answer 5

No. Just let it go and move on. If he loves you, he'll come back and tell you so. In the meantime go on with your life, I don't think he's worth it.

Answer 6

I know how u feel but he probably is not your true love if ya'll broke up. So move on w/ your life and be happy w/ friends!!!!! :) (until u find another special person)

Answer 7

i think u should not give him another chance, at least not on till he gives u reason y he back out of it in the first place

Answer 8

give yourself time, time heals everything, its normal what you are going through...

Answer 9

remember who you are. Its his loss