I make good grades i'm 13 and they say I'm not ready yet. What can I do my Good freinds ask me to go with them to the movies on the last few Fridays. but I couldn't go.
2007-03-02 13:54:42 · 8 answers · asked by Rocket Fan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should show them how responsible you really are. Do extra chores and help your parents and siblings( if you have any) whenever they need it. They are probably just trying to protect you for your own good and safety, thats what good parents do.
2007-03-02 14:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say where you live, but if it's in a large city there could be many reasons why they won't let you go. Also the place you hold in sibling rank (1st, last, only child) could play a part in their reticence. They are obviously concerned for you, but some parents do have a hard time letting their children grow up. Mature behavior at other times is what is going to help, and calm discussions with concrete ideas as to why you should be allowed to go will help win their respect. Be patient. Do not say things like "so-and-so gets to go" and "how come all my friends can go, but I can't?" You need to point out your qualities that make you trustworthy and be willing to compromise if some leeway is given. Understand that your parents want what is best for you. You might want to ask them what their fears are that are preventing them from allowing you to go to the movies with your friends. Some helpful ideas might be that they drive and pick you up, even taking you and your friends. If they don't know your friends, they should get to meet them and even meeting or talking to their parents would be helpful to confirm your honesty. The best way to get your parents to trust you is to give them reasons to trust you, always, not just when you want something. Remember, good things come to those who wait.
2007-03-02 14:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by ingramrr5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you need to prove to them that you are responsible. you need to tell your parents that you will call them once you are inside the movie theatre and once the movie is over. let them know what your plan is and where you are going to be at all times. now this may bug or embarass you at first but if your parents see that you are responsible then they will let you go out with your friends more often.
you could also let them pick the movie. or have them o.k. it
hope this helps!
2007-03-02 14:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by Emily M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, you may't easily rigidity your dad and mom to believe interior a similar way like you do (and vice-versa). i assume your already mature adequate to make your ideas up what you imagine is the right for you. properly, this isn't any longer that i'm a vegetarian yet one and all has his/her opinion. attempt to describe those on your dad and mom, in the journey that they nevertheless rigidity you properly, it is your selection no matter if you position a unmarried meat on your mouth or no longer. :) get my element? in the journey that they extremely insist, try eating on my own. :) Your dad and mom might want to get the hint!.
2016-11-27 01:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by ensey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your parents are just doing it for your own good...and you would really be best off staying home. Or you could say that they could drive you there and pick you up after, to see to it that you're safe
2007-03-02 13:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just show them how mature you are.
Help out more around the house, and show them you are ready for the responsibility.
2007-03-02 14:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by holly_trishner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
they must be pretty overprotective
well tell them that you have earned it,
that you make good grades
and you should do stuff around the house to let them know
that you are responsible
and if they still dont then jus wait.
2007-03-02 14:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on who you're going with, theres ppl i can go with, and others i can't go with cause my parents don't want to come bail me out of jail at 2:00 in the morning. lol. (been done be4 by other siblings)
2007-03-02 14:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋